http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=44153 a thread in love and sex that applies here too... why would anyone in their right mind justify a 29 year old having sex with an 8 year old? hy would anyone joke about it like it's funny? Honestly I have a zero tolerance for sick people like this. I think this is a parenting issue. If my 8 year old son was screwing a 29 year old woman or however it may happen I would not be happy. What kind of a mom has sexual relations with her grade schools kids friend?
It totally disgusts me. That little boy is only 2 yrs older than Maddie! I can't begin to understand what kind of pyscho that woman is, but I call her a rapist...even if they considered it to be "consensual." An eight yr old cant comprehend what that even means!
I think I'm going to be sick... Talk about ruining a kid's childhood! I don't think I can discuss this without flipping out so I'm going to back out of this one.
Whats my experience. I lived with a victem of sexual abuse for 18 years. I know the aftermath of sick adults. I saw my 5 cousins get molested and raped and their father go to jail. I saw my aunt a victem get raped by men I saw her aftermath...my uncle was a victem of the same sexual abuse he was also the rapist of my aunt my mother and my cousins... I saw their aftermath as well. Another aunt a victem of sexual abuse was a druggie and a hooker I saw her afetrmathas well...Almost all my friends have eather been raped or molested by some older person in their younger years. I see their aftermath. My friend worked at the childrens recieving home which I used to live across the street from...also which my mother ended up at when she was achild from sexual abuse...my friend sees it too.My mother in law was a victem of sexual abuse too. She still cries over her ordeals as well. My mom had 6 brothers and a sister...all victem of rape and sexual molestation and mental and physical abuse by adults.I don't make light of sexual abuse. I don't agree with making fun of it.
if you take my post personaly thats your problem I wasnt aiming my post at you but you can keep talking if youd like.
This is an issue that you can't get too serious about. Child abuse must be stopped. I work with drug addicts who are in rehab with their children. Most of them have been sexually assaulted as children and as adults. And most of their children have been assaulted as well. Rape is a serious issue. It's not something to make jokes about or to laugh off. And this is not a transitory issue for me. I've worked in this field for 6 years. Before that I am the mother of 5 children who were sexually assaulted as children. And before that I am the survivor of childhood sexual abuse. This is a serious issue. It can be deadly for the children. Do you know what the suicide rate is for young victims of sexual assault? Do you know how many of these kids turn to drugs to deal with the pain this causes? It's serious and telling jokes about it won't make it go away. If this woman is having sex with an 8 year old, she needs help. She needs her children taken into protective custody. Cause let me tell you, if she is molesting her children's young friend, she is also molesting her children. Please stop pretending this is not a serious issue. Laughing about it won't make it go away. Kathi
I can't access the thread. This was a womyn who said she was having sex with a child? Was the poster "new?" This IS a serious issue, IF the post was real. Could our neighborhood misogynist, jiimaan have posted it as a way to "prove" his hatred towards womyn, and his theory that womyn are just as likely to be sexual predators as men? See this thread in Politics and tell me if it is similar. http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=44683 I smell a rat.
I have never been sexualy molested or raped myself. My mom was very protective of me from her family so this never happened. I said "Being overly serious about not molesting children MAY turn you off IF your a child molester" I didn't write Blackie in there anywhere...again you're just assuming. "in Washington a few years ago when so many parents were unfairly accused, convicted and their lives ruined over false accusations-hysteria over these hot button issues detroys many innocent people.." How do you know these aligations are false? People who falsly accuse of abuse have a lot wrong with them. Don't attacking me about MY family whe you asked me what my experiences were with the subject. Also I am assumin by your rude comments around here that you believe I have given you nagative rep. I did not give you any rude comments or call you a child molester. You can go look for your person someplace else, If I want to call you something Ill do it leave my name.
How, exactly, is taking child abuse less seriously going to prevent false accusations. That doesn't make any sense. Of course it's a terrible thing when people are falsely accused. I am certain, however, that there are many, many more incidents of abuse that go unreported. Just because once in a while someone is falsely accused, that doesn't mean it's okay to take child molestation allegations any less seriously. You know what else? It's NOT alright to blame the victims. It is never the victims' fault. It sounds as if you are saying that people who don't want to get molested shouldn't hang out with pedophiles. Pedophiles prey on vulnerable people. Besides, there just isn't any excuse. Claiming that the victims are in some way responsible for the crimes inflicted upon them is something that pedophiles and rapists do. Think about that.
I cannot imagine a child of eight having sex with a adult willing. It had to be taught as a game or something. And that is the sign of a child molestor. Find out how to lure in the child and do there thing. Sad thing is, these people only think of what there getting. A little thrill. And never consider what they are doing to the child. Imagine this boy's attitude toward sex now. Is it going to be just a game? Sad to even consider that. Instead of the beautiful thing it really is. There is humor in many of a thing. But presonally I don't see humor in anothers problems and pain. I truelly do hope sometime people will open there eyes and see the others hearts. My 2 cents. Peace The Pizza Prophet
here's an issue: was the 8 year old capable of sexual intercourse? Why didn't the parents notice & how did they? my 13 yo isn't interested yet. how does an 8 yo boy (sex requires an active male) be a part of it? 8 yo girls are acted upon, and so, perhaps this child. messed up world.
Never, ever heard of that. Did you read that in the Weekly World News or something? Cuz, you know, you have to consider the source...Was there a picture of Elvis holding his 400 pound alien baby on the cover of the same publication?
Of course this is a serious issue, child molestation is horrendous, I'm sure we'd all agree to that. That poor child, his life has been changed forever.
You should perhaps contact one of a moderator to see if they can identify who posted that rep. Maggie Sugar repeatedly accused me of being a pedophile when I started a thread on false rape allegations. And here she is calling me a misogynist because I disagreed with the ruling that a woman was acquitted of having a sexual relationship with a 13 year old.
Even if it was maggie sugar or any othe rperson..waht does it matter one bad rep for his hundreds of good rep. ?
