If this is typed bad I am not wearing my contacts so here goes... What personalitiy traits and/or types are you attracted to and/or turned on by? I am attracted to the shy and extremely nice girl, the cool funny girl (what guy isn't), and unfortunally the fucked-up needy girl (it makes me feel good to actually be doing some good even though the girls are way too fucked-up to actually help. The shy and extremely nice girl is the one that turns me on the most where as the others are more of just attractions.
I like the guys who are smart but not arrogant... smart enough to carry one great, intelligent conversations, but not so smart that they're asses about it. That's so unattractive. I really like guys who are funny, but not fart-joke funny. Guys who are wit-and-pun funny are my favourite kind... i always had a thing for Hawkeye Pierce rofl. I'm usually "attracted" to guys that seem kind of out there, poets, artists, musicians, but they're not the ones I really want to date. I just like getting caught up in their vibe, you know? The real kind of me is the kind of guy who likes to hang out and watch cartoons, and have bbqs with friends. I guess when it comes down to it, the guy next door with a big heart and a smart sense of humour is my dream guy.
I am attracted to the men that have common sense, and common knowledge. Also men that are so smart as to trick society into thinking that they are "psycho" basically a man that can manipulate people into having them think he is someone tha the is not. I also like a guy who can carry on a good conversationg about basically anything i throw at him. I like someone who shares his veiws on things and is open minded towards life. I am totally attrat=cted to a man that is aggressive with getting what he wants
Intelligent guys. Caring guys. Guys who can genuinely listen. Not smart to the point of being jackasses, and not so caring that they're too emotional to function... I still like my guy to be stronger emotionally than me. I definately like a nerdy streak in them... otherwise we won't have anything to talk about! Maybe a dark streak in them... like a semi goth, or goth wannabe, or a touch of punk. Yeah, that's hot.
Ha! I'm watching MASH right now. I like smart girls, but not smarter than me. There's nothing more unattractive than a dumb person. I'm generally more attracted to girls who are more eccentric, and I'm really attracted to girls who smile a lot. I'm a very laid back kind of guy, so I like girls who are like that too. I can't handle people who are high strung. I'm also quite a rational person, so I can handle a girl who's emotional, but not overly emotional. Outgoing girls with a lot of energy also turn me on.
Hmm i like guys who are extremley intelligent, well read, educated,funny, attentive,lke to be needed but know how to need too,charismatic,sensitive towards others, broad shoulders, a good listener but someone who can tell when i feel like listening instead of talking-finally so nice to be with someone who does more than ask questions and can actually contribute to a conversation that isn't boring as fuck or and who when they talk about work it's actually interesting.
I would love to find a girl that is "down to earth". Seems that about 95% of the girls I talk to couldn't give a crap about anything but themselves. I mostly just want a girfreind thats is like a best friend. Someone to hangout with and still have feeling for each other.
I like guys that are caring and social but in a manly sort of way.. like.. who'd save a bird that felt out of it's nest but would be able to kill to survive as well. I like it when a guy has a very wide range of interests and knows stuff about a lot of things, doesn't have to go in depth, but just enough to carry an interesting conversation. I like it when he has little or no taboos, a healty amount of ambition and curiosity. Also being able to outwit me in a conversation makes things a lot more interesting Kinda hard to describe really.. but I think I found'm so.. yeay!
yeah, i want that to, but in a guy. most guys i been out with seem to be so up their own arses. generally i like men who are different, quirky, accepting, open minded, sensitive, but most of i would like a guy who likes me for what i am.
I like guys who have a healthy self-confidence, are intelligent and able to have conversations, are easy-going and fun-loving, care about other people, aren't afraid to act silly, are exciting and maybe look a bit badass but in reality are such sweethearts. Those kinda guys make me melt.
Well, I'll tell you what attracted/attracts me to my husband. A musician, an artist, a poet. Deep-thinking, intelligent, and always up for a good debate. Rugged, sexy, and extremely masculine. Strong, socialbe, and witty. Confident, stable, and a dry sense of humour. A best friend as well as a lover. Peace...
i so agree with u. i hate guys who think their shit dont stink lol i LOVE funny guys, gotta make me laugh! and they sorta have to b open minded cus i am, and i hate ppl who arnt, not to mention that my dad is homosexual, so they DEFANITLY have to b accepting to that. i need a sesitive guy though, who can b cute, and make me feel good about mysself, cus i have such a low self esteem. i really want a guy who likes me for me though, and doesnt want me to change. i need someone who can b there for me, becuase im a slight manic depressint. i really want a guy who can talk. i hate silences on the phone,and with a good conversationalist, there arnt any i need someone whos deep too, id love a writer. being rocker/goth (i hate titles) that look turns me on. but in all reality, i need a sweet sensitive guy who is funny, excepting, there for me, a conversationalist, and defanitly DEFANITLY has an imagination, i HATE realistic guys... which makes no sense then y im with my bf hahahahha
Hmm...good question. I always like seeing what qualities in a person others like. For me my number one turn ons would probably be creativity, and open mind, and someone who is also intelligent and unique. I like guys who know how to have good conversations and dont waiste their life away in front of a tv (and I say that because thats exactly what my ex ALWAYS would do...never talk...just sit in front of the tv for hours...how boring). Other than those things, I'm not too picky.
Im a big fan of shy girls.... I dated alot of "not so shy" ones back in the day but that led to nothing but turmoil.
Not exactly sure, but lemme see here... I like girls that are musical, little shy, someone i could concider my best friend and lover. I hate girls that are uptight and closed minded. A girl i could talk to all the time, and to look over for comfert.
To be honest, the asshole-ish intelligent guys are a turn-on for me. It's as if getting them to like/love you is an accomplishment, that and I like it cuz they're usually the ones trying hardest to hide the nicest personalities...
yeah i don't like having to 'accomplish' securing ones love if it's not an equality of feelings I take off after awhile no matter how uch the guys intelligence might turn me on. If I had to pick between a warm yet completley not with it guy and a genious who was aloof I would pick the warm dumb guy. but there are always smart warm guys so i won't have to settle
