I've been dating a girl I met during my spring break, we've hung out almost everyday since we've met. I kind of felt like it was too much togetherness in such a short period of time but it didn't seem like it phased her at all. (so I just let things ride out the way they've been going). We had sex the second day I met her and basically two or three times everyday that I've seen her, without a condom. She just got her period so I'm not really worried. Last Tuesday I asked her to be my girlfriend, and the pass two days our conversations have gone dull. Texting back and forth one phase sentences or smiley faces. Could this be because of her period, the fact the we rushed into the relationship fast, or am I just over thinking it? Honest feedback would be great
You might have held off on the sex for a bit. I've rushed into things before and it usually fizzed out because we really didn't have enough time to get to know each other before you got lost in the passion and thought you didn't need to know anything else. Either way, it couldn't hurt to give it some time and see what happens with her. If nothing changes in another week or so, then move on and next time take things slower. Or stay friends.
I find that when I think my relationship is getting boring it is because I am busy thinking about it being boring instead of living and letting myself have fun with the one that I love. Have you ever seen the movie Paris Je Taime? It is a french movie that is like a series of short stories. Anyway there is one scene where a man is about to tell his wife he is leaving her, but before he can, she tells him she has terminal cancer. instead of leaving her, at that moment he decides he will make the final months of her life wonderful in any way he can. He begins acting like he is in love with her to make her happy, but in the process actually falls in love with her again. So my point is, if you want to be happy with this girl, let yourself be. Stop thinking about whats wrong and just live. Haha, I should absolutely follow my own advice as well. And I am trying to. Not because I have fallen out of love with a person, but more out of love with life. And if I stop thinking so much about what is going wrong between life and I, I am sure that we will be able to have a pretty good time together.
I think this has been the advice I was after, thank you, thank you. I'm going to look up the movie too. I'm just going to go along with the situation. And hope for the best
Haha, I'm glad I could help. Responding sort of helped me figure some stuff out too. Oh by the way, when you first start watching that movie the first scene is about love between two men (no sex or nudity though) but the whole movie is not about two gay men. I am sure a lot of guys would see that first seen and throw their bud light at TV and be like "this movie is for fags" or something along those lines. haha. But as I said before, it is like a series of short stories. So the gay guys are not the main characters throughout the whole thing. I am not saying the first scene is bad at all. i really like the whole movie. But I am just warning you so you aren't really confused about what some bitch of hipforums told you to see.
