Help with kissing problem!!!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by forumdude2227, Oct 4, 2009.

  1. forumdude2227

    forumdude2227 Member

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    Well I have been going out with this girl for almost 2 weeks now.

    We both are fairly inexperienced. I have never kissed anyone before, and I dont think she has either.


    I dont want her to get upset because Im scared to make a move, but I dont want her to feel uncomfortable because it was too soon.

    Do you guys think the time is right to kiss? Like 2 weeks into the relationship? Or should I wait awhile?
     
  2. raz5

    raz5 زینب

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    have you ever watched that episode on that 70s show where donna tells jackie eric is bad in bed, then eric finds out he was a bad kisser but got better as they practiced?
    yeah.
     
  3. themysterytramp

    themysterytramp Member

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    i'll be really unhelpful. i think you'll know when its the right time to do it, just dont worry about it
     
  4. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    well, you can start with kissing her hand as you hold it, that with a smile can be a heart-melter.
    Kissing her cheek & then a soft, lingering peck on the lips...then read her signals.
     
  5. missedit

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    Kissing is not as big of a deal especially with someone who's never kissed before, the standards are not every high. I think if you're ready two weeks is a good time to kiss just try a peck on the lips at first and go from there. Just a word of advice... Do not use kissing videos on youtube to learn how, I've watched some and it's kinda funny. I'm still not sure if it's supposed to be real or just a joke lol. But anyways do what yuo feel is right don't let anyone pressure you.
     
  6. Beatbird

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    2 weeks sounds alright to me :)
    and don't worry, you'll get better as you practice ;)
     
  7. forumdude2227

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    Now it's almost 2 months, and still have only pecked once.
     
  8. *The_Most_Known_Unknown*

    *The_Most_Known_Unknown* Member

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    wow, kill yoself boi
     
  9. HNW

    HNW Banned

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    Two months? And you're not fucking her yet? WTF
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    if you've known her for 2 weeks and haven't kissed her yet, you're already "just a friend."
     
  11. neodude1212

    neodude1212 Senior Member

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    put your mouth on her mouth and lolidunno
     
  12. MissEmma

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    Just do it! I remember being super scared of kissing. And I remember pulling away from someone because I was too scared. And I regretted it so quickly. But looking back, I am glad that things with that boy never went any further cause he turned out to be better suited as a friend for me as a boyfriend. Anyway. Just do it. After all, you'll have to do it eventually unless you plan to become a monk or something. might as well get some practice while your still young.
     
  13. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    I remember feeling that same way once. One can be naive at that age as they lack experience. That's not your fault. An ex-girlfriend explained this to me once a long time ago. Matter of fact she was my first as well. It's as simple as this according to her...If the girl didn't want you to kiss her already, would she be dating you? :)
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i wonder if she even knows they're "dating."
     
  15. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    lmao
     
  16. Monkey Boy

    Monkey Boy Senior Member

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    You could always give her a peck on the cheek and test the waters so to speak.
     
  17. wawoo

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    a successful first date ends up with a good night kiss. Am I wrong?
     
  18. *The_Most_Known_Unknown*

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    i was having sex before my relationship even started, so in my opinion if you haven teven kissed her..........thats a bit sad man. just do it. youll get over it if you just get past your weak fears man
     
  19. Tripin4Enlightenment

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    i remember bein scared like that...however on the first date...first five minuets she made it easy for me...said she wanted to kiss me...so we did. love it when life is easy eh?
     

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