And its probably worse, if she's telling you all these little details about her "fellas" and body, she probably thinks you are playing on my team Hell, if you call them "fellas" I'm going to think you are playing on my team Emphasising masculinity when referring to female body parts, definately a sign. Then again girls refer to them as "the girls" so I could just be full of crap, or so you hope
Wow that's incredible, girlfriend of 7 years, falling for another girl, but cos I use the word "fellas" I must be gay! Plus I'm talking about her "fella", her man, her bloke, my mate! Not her bodyparts though thanks for making me laugh
That is a major bummer. Must suck. Your last sentence has me worried. Leave her be, man. Even though you think you may have found a soul mate or some such thing, if she's getting this cozy with you while she is still with him, what makes you think she won't get cozy with some other dude at work while dating you? Then you've thrown away a friendship AND lost your girlfriend. These rules of relationships exist for a reason. Are you sure the fact that she's off-limits isn't what's making it harder for you to walk away? Seriously, though. Dick move. Don't do it.
As soon as you take your first step in that direction, you are irrevocably and unarguably a douchebag. Respect the bro code.
I've been down this road, and I almost lost a friend over it. She was a recent ex, not a current girlfriend, but that just makes it even worse in your case. Don't go there.
It's so funny, everybody thinks their mates girlfriend fancies them. They just try had to get along with you because your their fella's friend. So many of my friends have blatantly insinuated my girls fancy them, which is bullshit. They found it annoying that they can't be nice to some guys without watching them turn on the 'charm'. I could name at least 5 friends who have actually tried kissing a girlfriend of mine, or someone I am seeing. It causes to many problems at the time, and now I just don't let my friends and girlfriends hang around so much. My friends are true lads, and thus they have to be kept on a leash.
I have this problem with a friend that's turned into an asshole. +_+ I think maybe him liking her is part of why he turned into an asshole, even =P
If he is your best mate, then do not do it. The relationship won't last anyway and you will ruin your friendship big time. If it is some other chick in relationship with dude you don't know, then go for it, but do not expect too much. I am currently dating a chick who got bored of his bf. And Johnny doesn't know!
This is why I always keep a healthy distance from any of my friends' girlfriends. I was their friend first - and if they cheat on their girl I will advise them to break up or confess and/or stop it - but I will still be on their side and be their friend. Plus I don't believe any man and women are truly ever friends(straight people that is). Bottom line - you already fucked up being that close. If I knew one of my guy friends was listening to my girlfriend confess our relationship trouble to them it would be violence time.
F F F F F R I E N D Z Z Z Z ZONE Zone zone ... Dude don't do it. No matter what your feelings are it will only cause you grief. If you really think she's right for you then wait like an upstanding person would until she's available.
You are in the friend zone %100. If you try to get with her she is gonna play you like a game. Don't do anything. It's for the best
