How can I prove that I am not here to hurt and only help to someone with trust issues, who has been betrayed over and over again in the past? I mean every word I say I just need him to know that... any advice?
^ tell him this. No matter how hard we work to earn a person's trust, that person must still choose to trust us.
Exactly and I agree tell him what you wrote. If he still doesn't trust you, you might have to keep reassuring him. If he is so worried about it let him see your phone and stuff like that. Show him that nothing is going and that he can trust you. Also maybe ask him why he feels like he can't trust you, besides what other people have done to him.
Just be honest, dont lie even the little lies come out- trust is earnt over time it doesnt come over night. Be as open and as honest as you can and he should be reasured by your truth Good luck lady xxx
