Right .. (im a 19 y/o female) i have a boyfriend who i have been with for a few years now and i am still in love him. But, i have recently accepted that i am bisexual, i have told nobody about this, absolutley no one. Now, one of my friends sometimes gives me the impression that she likes me as she seems flirty with me at times and she play fights with me practically everytime we are over one or the others house. But, she is supposidly straight as she dates lads. The thing is, i am crazy about her, i try not to show it because i dont want anybody to notice. Shes so good looking and has this awesome personality. I want to know the truth regarding the way she acts with me but i dont know how to go about finding out. I dont want to confront her about it incase she is deffinately straight and she takes offense or gets embarrased that shes made me think that way. If the truth is that she does like me, i will tell her how i feel aswell. Please can somebody help me on sussing this one out! Thanks!
I think you need to really consider what you're doing. Let's say she does like you, are you willing to leave your boyfriend for her? And if she doesn't, well that makes things a bit more awkward between you. Neither of you may feel comfortable being as flirtatious you are now with her. If you're willing to leave your boyfriend for her, then go ahead and take the leap, but if not, then why would you bother?
If she does like me id tell her to keep it between ourselves for a bit until we figure out thats what we want, but i wouldnt cheat on my boyfriend i would break it off with him first. If shes straight, il carry on as i am. I just want peoples oppinions on the situation. Does it sound like she could possibly be bi aswell but hiding it?
That'd be a wise decision to make. Always remeber he's your partner, not your puppet. You mean with your boyfriend? So he's your plan B, right? If you can't get the girl you'll keep the boy as a consolation prize. I see your current relationship is clearly based on mutual respect and honesty... just lovely... Impossible to tell. We don't know her nor do we have enough information to be sure. Besides, what you consider "flirty" may only be wishful thinking.
