Very weird fantasy about my G/F. advice/opinions

Oh.. and another thing. I don't think having this fantasy is wrong. I dont think acting it out is wrong to... But pressuring, even slow sub conscious pressure is not cool.

 

Wow, this is my first post and on a cool topic....... We have lived out the fantasy and man was it an intense euphoric time...... We still party with a close friend from time to time when we feel like it...... Lots of fun....

 

Thanks to all for the opinions and keep em' coming

 

Has anyone else experienced this or thought about it?

 

yeah ive thought about it, then got disgusted by the idea

 

Well at least we know your opinion now, you have the right to be disgusted my friend, no need to like.

Any other comments?

 

I've really thought about it and many times in the past I had second thoughts, but the thought keeps coming back and I am fully decided that if my girlfriend wants to experiment and have sex with other guys, I will not hold her back as long as it is simply sex with no emotions involved. If you guys ever heard of the hotwife lifestyle or the cuckhold theory, you might get an idea of where I'm coming from.

For now, she's able to enjoy sexual freedom, if she's decided. I have not and will not pressure her, all I've done is tell her that if she wants to, she can make herself sexually available.

I know to most of you out there, I am a real dumbass but that's just your opinion.

 

well, sometimes fantasy should stay fantasy. if she says NO, so respect her decision and stop talking about it. i think any further words would be also a kind of pressure on her.

i don´t think you are crazy or so. all i think is: respect her decision if you really love her.

 

Well guess what everyone, just found out my girlfriend had sex with 2 different guys the past 2 nights

 

She did it with 2 guys but looks like there might be a 3rd one coming up soon.

 

are you sure she didnt do this because she felt forced? my b/f wanted me to have a 3some mfm, but i never did it although i felt forced to. (btw im new here so if im doing something wrong, whoopsie doodle!)

 

good for you man, I couldn't have my girl doing that though however I would have a MFF so I guess that makes me a hypocrite

 

Well, I dont think she felt forced because I hadnt mention the subject to her in a while, the last time I talked to her about it, I just told her she had the choice and the freedom to go out and have sex with guys of her choice as long as I approve of them,the conversation never came up until she had sex with those 3 guys. Also, if she felt forced I dont think she would want to continue doing it (which she plans on continuing) so she obviously like the freedom and the extra sex. Since you're a girl, maybe you can tell better, do you think she still might've felt forced?

 

well, I should mention this...

a few weeks ago, before I broke up with him, my now ex bf told me I should "get a girlfriend to experiment with and tell him about" and I was like whaaaaat? I mean, I know he wasn't in love with me, but why the hell did he want to share me like that? When I turned 19 and we went to the bar, he kept talking about how these guys had been hitting on me (most of which were his very drunk friends) and I was like, yeah, ok , it was pretty flattering now shut up about it already. It felt really disrespectful to me that he didn't seem to mind others wanting me or me being with someone else (well, only a chick, not a guy, but still). I found it very rude in my situation...

but I never felt pressured to do these things for him. No, I ended up breaking up with him for a variety of other reasons (this is something that we could've worked out, but the rest of the relationship... oi)

 

well i certainly cant answer that. it all depends on how her feelings were toward that when she was about to do it. if you noticed she was a little uncomfortable with it before she did it, then yes. but if she was up for it and was excited to do it, then no. now that she did those two other guys and is about to do another then she obviously liked it, i mean who wouldnt like pleasure, right? especially when you dont have a need to be scared that you might get beat up or be called names after youve done it. you told her it was OK so theres no problem with it. IMO.

 

Maybe it's the voyuer in you that wants to attach fantasies like that to your gf. It's a natural thing.. Here's something to think about.. I was in a band with this dude, and he wanted to do a MMF with his girlfriend.. Up until the time they were doing it.. It turns out she was enjoying the other guy more than he would have liked.

Be careful for what you wish for.. Sometimes you get it.

 

Yeah i dont know about you but the thought of my gf with another man just repulses me and angers me not to mention hurts me on the inside so bad. I couldnt imagine her with another man and if i even thought about her having sex with other guys it really hurts me inside. I cant really relate to your fantasy but to tell you the truth i'm sure it's very normal to have these types of thoughts.

 

You said as long as you approve of the guys.....then you said you just found out she did it with 2 guys in 2 nights.

Sounds like she's movin' on to me.

Give her a kiss......it won't be long till she's gone now.


P.S. I m leaning towards this being a bullshit story from some kid. Seems to be plenty around here.

 

Well, those 2 first guys, I didnt get a chance to meet before she had sex with them, but hey, it was the first time that she actually accomplished my fantasy, she knows that from now on, I like to know who the guys are before she does anything. Oh and by the way, this is not some "kid" with a "bullshit" story. but thanks for your opinion, Spot.

 

Hey guys, just going through the forum and decided to post an update on how my g/f and I are doing in regards to the topic. Dont know if you guys really care or not but here goes for those who are wondering whatever happened to us.

My girlfriend has decided to be a Hotwife (hot girlfriend) which means she can date guys other than me and give herself to them if they try to get in her pants and if she's comfortable letting them. In fact she already has a guy in mind to start hot wifing with. She plans on making him a regular b/f if the first experience goes well.

Well, thanks for taking the time to read this. If any comments/suggestions just post em' up