Guys, ladies. I've been thinking about pay for sex with some quality girls lately. I know I am shallow, when I said quality, I mean better looking. I felt extra horny in this two weeks, and I went to the night club yesterday. Geez, it was really a meat market, but where was the filet mignon? I had to act like I am in prison and make no eye contact with some no class sluts. I had fun watching super hot girls who got paid to lead the dancing crowds though. I received some AD from my email, and those escorts are really hot. They even have reviews, so they are real. I can afford a little fun every one or two weeks for sure, but I am struggled with the idea "pay for sex". I got hurt by the relationship in the past, but I think I am recovered, or, I shall say, covered the wounds. Sometimes, I just want to have sex, meaningless sex with better looking girls without all those dating, hating, caring shit. I have such a mixed feeling about escorts and dating. I am kind of messed up right now. ladies, will you look down on a male who pays for sex? Guys, what do you think if the escorts genuinely dislike you ans still acting nicely when you are on top of them? What should I do? I am such a horny, filthy fart!
Hell yes!!! I'm a man and even I would, so you can be sure with women it will be even worse. Tip them generously. Agreed.
Tip to the wiser- you do not have to tell other women about this I unscrewed the lip of the can, now you just have to pop the thing off. Enjoy your meaningless sexual escapades
Pay for sex if you want, but know that the prostitution business is full of exploitation and abuse. I don't have a philosophical problem with prostitution, but I think the industry tends to "use people up" who have very few other options. There are some independent women who use the job for true economic benefit, but most do it out of desperation. Its an illegal industry in most parts, so these same women have little recourse if they get raped, beaten, assaulted, swindled, etc. I think its ironic that your problem with a nightclub is that its full of classless sluts. If you are looking at this as a way to move past your prior hurt and reclaim your ability to have a healthy relationship, it won't help. It will likely hinder any future relationship you have if your partner finds out. Not all realtionships are full of hate/drama/emotional toil. In the long run, i think you'd be happier changing your outlook on relationships rather than feed an immediate hunger. I think you have two different ideas of women. One, you want to find someone you can live with happily as a life partner. The other outlook is that you see woman as an object of sexual desire. That's why your ideas are mixed up right now. The right woman will be both.
Guy: I think shes a man-hating tart and you squirt one in her eye to complete the mutual humiliation. Think you're alone? Sounds like a good tango to me.
If you want to hire a hooker, then go for it. You will hopefully have a great time and she will make a living. Telling future partners is probably not a great idea.....just maybe make sure you are clean before you decide to sleep with someone you are going to want to keep around.
Granted I'm actually in a loving relationship. I've heard it said that everyone pays for sex. It may not be in money. It can be in freedom. Or self respect. Or any one of a million intangibles. It all comes down to your price. What are you willing to spend? I've bought dinner and got a piece of ass. And I've spent time in LTR's with verbally and mentally abusive women. I've had meaningless one night stands with women I usually wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. I could barely look at myself in a mirror after that. I'm currently in a relationship with a woman that I love. But I still pay fo sex within that realtionship. I am commited. I see other women and think "Damn she could be fun for 20 minutes." But I leave it at that. If I act on that thought I have paid for that 20 minutes with a 4 year relationship that means alot more to me. I pay for the sex I have now by remaining faithful. That is just my position and choice. So you want to blow some cash on a call girl. Fuck it knock yourself out. It is guaranteed. You can blow the same amount of scratch on drinks and still go home and beat off. The upside of prostitution is that everybody to within a certain extent knows what they're getting into. You arent going to fall in love with them and have them cheat on you or get into some weird controlling behaviour. She doesn't fall in love with you makes a little cash and moves on. But she answers to a pimp or someone and there is the payoff. I say fuck it as long as everyone can live with the concequences of their actions on their concience go for it. Just remember to wrap that rascal cause there's alot of shit you can get and not get rid of. Peace Out, Rev J
Yes, one of my friends introduced me to this lady who has a 7 years old boy to support. She's attractive and since she's out of job for a while, now she considers to earn some cash in an ancient way. We met and had an agreement, that I pay her $2500 a month, she will be mine. Honestly, I was not going to do it in this way, but since she sounds really desperate. if I don't do it, she will go for the others. So better to keep her with me. I hope i will not get too personally involved.
This ads a new wrinkle to the equation. I think it is for the best if you add 2 new boundaries to the situation. Boundary one you NEVER meet the kid. At 7 there is a great chance that the kid can get attached to you. That is adding a third variable to the situation that can further complicate a complicated situation. When 2 concenting adults are involved it's cool but when a kid enters the mix then things can go south fast and the situation can get hairy for everyone involved. Prostitution is still illegal and Child protective services look down on that. Boundry 2 the kid comes first. I know this sounds like an open door to be used but a 7 year old kids' needs come before yours. He has more life to see than you do. The womans first responsibility is to the kid. You're an adult you can go without easier than the kid can. Spell these conditions out clearly with the other person because you are the adults in this situation. Then remember that this is a situation that will end eventually. It can end on good terms. This is how I would handle this situation. Good luck. Peace Out, Rev J
Right on man! These were exactly What I worried about. 1. On our agreement, she's going to act like my "gf". Which means, she will be sleeping over or ask me to go to her apt. No matter what, I will meet the boy. Unless, she acts like a real hooker, comes for an hour pleasure. 2. I love kids. I will be attached to the little boy too. 3. We tried to make it less shameful as it could be. She's pretending it is a dating process. I convince myself I just tried to help out. 4. The more time we will spend together, the more we will find out this agreement just some dangerous BS.
regarding thread starter: "What do you think pay for sex?" thats all i read, and will comment on that generality. from personal experience, the few pros i paid did not perform sufficiently. for one, they did not "snap", squeeze, etc (i.e. use their vaginal muscles). again i have little experience with pros(prostitutes). however, if you can find one that really does satisfy your sexual needs, its worth it. i do beleive what a friend told me once: that the most honest relationship between two people is paid sex. i mean its right there, right up front, money for service rendered. there is non of this endless courting, or spending time at bars, or having to look good to attract a woman( i am hetero male), no need to keep a gold digger happy with your hard earned cash so she will satisfy you on occassion. and the complexity of woman today: career, yet still wanting to be mothers, the constant psychological string pulling they do to men, its just to much for me to go through with again....of course this has been written from the perspective of a true, seemingly spent of life, in his early forties, emotional invalid(hence, my nom de plume, or however its spelled). having said that, it does not make invalid everything i have written in this post. even if your young, you may learn something by this seemingly cynical reply. and by learing i mean going off on a tangent, a digression from whatever part of any of the posts in this thread and start discussing and thinking about them. "i think therefore".... i become confused and have a headache...thats it, i quit for now
This almost sounds like the old middle eastern "arranged marrage". I'm not saying that you should marry her. But they usually work out better than the western model. It sounds like a paid dating process. It may end up for the best. In spite of some of the things I've said I'm a little bit of a romantic. If it works learn to write screenplays it could be a major motion picture. Peace Out, Rev J
Every once in a while, I go to a really nice restaurant and have a super meal, not the corner diner. While in a relationship or two over the years and hungering for variety, I call up for sex. Costs more than a 'date,' but the freedom and variety are a nice change once t'while. What the hell's wrong with a call girl or two? Variety, man! Your macho man image of yourself keeps calling you back to the ordinary. Try the best, you couldn't attract it by yourself - none of us can. Those gals are in a class by themselves. You'd never marry one!
I'm ok with paying for sex and as Fastswitch mentioned, it all about variety. sometimes appealing to callgirls is the best means to heal the wounds
