I've been going through a search for the perfect lube, but I haven't got any luck yet. I've tried several, but all seem to have a big con that cannot be ignored. Durex: I've tried several from Durex and are all a complete crap for anal sex. Lubrifist: This one has desensitizing properties and that might be unsafe for anal sex. Besides, it's not slippery enough. Maximus: The most slippery I've tried, but while almost everybody loves it I can't stand it cuz it causes me an intense burning feeling during intercourse. I think this might be an allergic reaction, cuz I feel the same when I finger myself with shampoo or shower gel in bath, only even worse! KY: The best I've tried, so far. It could be a lot slipperier, but it's still quite good. The thing is it's too expensive. Each tube costs 10€ but contains only 80g of lube and I wear it out in 4 sessions, tops. I'm too tight so I have to apply a great amount of lube so the penetration doesn't hurt. Is there any other brand you suggest? Which lubricant (not oils or spit) do you find more suitable for painless anal sex?
AstroGlide is very good. It's a silicon based lube..I can't use it for vaginal sex but for anal it is the best...
If there's a big problem with a limited selection there and you can't order for whatever reason, I expect that strait up vaseline would do the trick, though if you used too much, you'd never get all the vaseline out of your bed/house/anything else you might have sex on, in, or near
There's actually a quite wide selection of lubricants available, but many of them are not proper for anal sex and half of the ones which are either have desensitizing properties or are too expensive for the amount of lubricant the bottles contain. Can't order Astroglide. It'd be only about 4€, but the shipping would cost something like 50€! I had read wonderful things about Maximus, so I bought a bottle just yesterday, but the outcome wasn't good at all. It tuned out to burn like hell. 22€ down the pipe. I'm inclined to give Adam & Eve Personal Lubricating Gel or Aquaglide a try. Have you guys tried any of these?
I agree... try to order Astroglide online.... a small bottle is more than enough for many sexual adventures lol. It's the only thing I let my fiance use on me, but only in the ass (it feels weird on my pussy, I prefer my own juices and cum there)
AstroGlide rocks!!!! I remember one time I sat on the toilet seat after using it and almost slipped off...lol.. A small bottle will last quite a while..a little goes a loooong way..If I use it for vaginal sex I get an infection...Also have to be careful with the sweet flavored/edible lubes as they contain sugars..which also can cause infections.. I'm not a big fan of Vaseline. Way too thick..and yes..it will be everywhere forever!! But I guess if all else fails or what you want is not available... I wonder why the shipping is so high?? Weird....
I suppose a lot depends on whether or not you're using condoms. Obviously with condoms the lube has to be water based, but if you're going bareback with a trusted partner, then basic Vaseline (or any generic brand of Petroleum Jelly) is probably best. However, the water based ones also have the advantage of being much easier to clean up. Personally I use Durex lubes for use with my FleshLight, and KY when it comes to actual Anal Sex.
AstroGlide FTW! Cleans up REALLY fast and easy. KY or the drug store brand equivalent is the second choice for me.
there's special anal lube that is thick and desensitizing. there are lots of brands. any good sex shop will let you sample the lube in your hands before buying it.