Hey, I'm a 17 year old female who has always thought myself to be straight. When I was around 9 or 10, I remember seeing explicit pictures of women and finding their bodies attractive. I thought I may be bisexual. That was it, it never crossed my mind again. You see, I like lesbian porn but when I've spoken to other girls about it or researched it and looked on forums, 9 out of 10 girls say they prefer lesbian porn over straight porn for a number of different reasons. I have been thinking and thinking for the last 9 or 10 months about my sexuality. What am I? I can't be straight because I like women and I can't be a lesbian because I like men. I must be bisexual. The thing is, I suffer from OCD and I have a serious trouble accepting things. I don't know what to do. I have consulted my GP more than once and they have done nothing to help me. Does anybody have any idea on what I can do to accept this? Am I even bisexual? I can't seem to understand any of this. Any help will be much appreciated, thank you xxx
There are several types and I'm sure you will find yourself in one of these categories eventually Alternating Bisexuals – one relationship at a time, the first might be exclusively straight, the next exclusively gay and vice versa. Alternating Bisexuals are usually monogamous. Circumstantial Bisexuals – primarily heterosexual but bisexual because of circumstances, eg; Prison where there are no women/men available. Concurrent relationship Bisexuals – have a primary relationship with one gender, but may have multiple casual relationships with partners of the other gender. Conditional Bisexuals – will switch sexuality for personal gain, eg: Gay for Pay. Emotional Bisexuals – have intimate emotional relationships with both genders but only have sex with one gender. Integrated Bisexuals – have two or more concurrent primary relationships one with a man one with a woman Exploratory Bisexuals – testing the water seeing if they like it. Hedonistic Bisexuals -primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will switch purely for sexual pleasure. Recreational Bisexuals – bi only when drunk or high. “Party Bisexual” Isolated Bisexuals – currently straight or gay/lesbian – but has had one off sexual encounter in the past which qualifies them as bisexual. Latent Bisexuals – has strong yet so far unsatisfied urges to go the other way. Motivational Bisexuals – will go bi to satisfy a partner, e.g. straight women agreeing to MFF threesome. Transitional Bisexuals – the only type of bisexuality the gay community understands, the one “going through a phrase”.
