I've had this problem for years; every time I mess around with a girl I'll be erect until I go to put the condom on, then it will just go soft. Even if I manage to get the condom on, I can't get hard again. I've been having this problem for years, ever since I started trying to have sex. This happened a bunch with my ex, but I managed to get over it after a bit and figured out that once I was able to get it in I wouldn't have the problem unless I pulled out for a bit. And even after we were able to have sex it would still happen semi-frequently. I recently figured out that this has really been affecting my life. I don't pursue women because I'm absolutely terrified of this happening. I don't think it's performance anxiety because this happened before I started being nervous about it, although I'm betting that it's a big factor now. Maybe I masturbate too much? For a while I was masturbating at least once a day, and I ended up watching porn every time I did it, so I'm wondering if either masturbating too much could cause this or watching porn that often desensitized me to the actual thing? I'm seriously incredibly sick of this but have absolutely no idea how to fix it. The only thing I could think of is not masturbating or watching any porn for like a month and seeing if that helps. I'm just so sick of this it's really starting to depress me.
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No, some guys are just sensitive to condoms. You didn't "masturbate too much" or do anything wrong, although you could try not masturbating before a date and try jacking off with a condom in the meantime. Or you could be honest with a girl. Although I wouldn't hop into bed with a guy who pulled the whole, "I lose my erection with a condom," bit, you can possibly be a gentleman and say, "Why don't we both get STD testing?" Then you can have good unprotected sex.
No, I wouldn't say masturbation once a day is causing it... but it is probably the condom. Have you ever tried a female condom or waited to know the girl well enough to see if she'd be on the pill or have an IUD (Depending on if you're more concerned with pregnancy or STD's)?
Is the condom really tight when you put it on? If so, try Magnum. Srsly, I suffered for years thinking they were supposed to be that uncomfortable. Luckily I was quite young and able to keep an erection with that thing trying to squeeze all the hydraulics back into my pump. (Oh, and for those sex educator women who like to demonstrate by putting a regular condom over their hand - boners don't have bones in them.)
Shale, it's tight going on at first but then once I have it on I can roll it down pretty easily. It also starts going soft like when I go to get the condom, so before I even try rolling it on. I do lose a lot of sensation, though, so I'm thinking other brands might work better. I've been using Trojanenz and I remember that my ex had some that I didn't have a problem with (I think), so maybe I'll try some magnums (even though I'm not that big) or some thinner condoms. Thanks for the tip!
I'm in a very similar situaiton. One day I had trouble getting an erection, and it's been weighing down on me ever since. I've tried a whole range of herbal supplements and even Viagra afew times. The viagra works, but at my young age I deifnitely don't want to be dependent on it. Physically I'm OK - I get morning wood and I can get hard while masturbating, but if I KNOW that a girl is going to have sex with me at a certain day or a certain time then forget it. The real sicknes sis in my subconscious, and I think I'm going to have to face facts and get therapy, or at least hypnotherapy.
i have this same problem, and i absolutely hate everything about condoms, they never get on properly, often rip going on, squeeze my dick like a vice . . . maybe i should try them magnums. gonna grab some right now and test and yeah shale i always shake my head at sex ed bullshit, putting a condom on a solid dildo is absolutely nothing like putting one on your own living penis
