This is hypothetical

Say you met another single person and you both mutually decided to be fuck buddies.

Now say you spent time together for a month and has sex last on a Monday. On Wednesday you met and had sex again, only to find they had sex with someone else on Tuesday.

Would that knowledge ruin your whole 'single' fuck buddy arrangement or could you simply write this event off and continue with this undisclosed affair?

Remember that they didn't have to tell you about any extra curricular activities and you may have found this out from an external source.

What would you say to them on Thursday?

 

use protection and get over it. not in a real relationship, just a convenience.

 

You'd tell them that on Thursday?

 

If I felt I had to say something on Thursday, I would not see them again unless it was to ask them to then, be exclusive.

Open relationships have no commitments that are not defined at the start.

 

Depends on whether she told you before you had sex on wednesday or after.

If it is as it sounds, that she told you afterwards, I would never have anything to do with her again and I would be going to the doctor, both immediately and for a repeat check up in the following months...

If she told you before, then you have nothing to say about it in any way shape or form.

 

I've always made clear to casual partners that I do not, cannot know what they are doing with anyone else and I would show them the same respect.

Unless, we did it together.

I don't see what this external source could be. But, it may turn me off...hard to say.

Edit: In some cases they asked me, and I told them because they asked. Not before confirming why they wanted to know, and if it would create a problem.

 

on thursday, i would say "i had sex with your sister this morning."

 

I would pretend I didnt know...fuckbuddies are few and far between...or so it seems

 

i would use this opportunity to create a mutually agreed upon fuck-buffer zone if it bothered me...which it might depending on the other dude...and the girl...all things relative to how i feel and if i have a back up too

 

hmmm.. i cant really put myself in that situation.. because i dont think i could have sex with someone repeatedly without developin feelins for them!!!!!... so "hypothetically" if i did have sex with someone on monday, they had sex with someone else on tuesday, and we werent in a relationship, which means there were no real strings attached if we were to end it.. I'd end it...

because if i kept on seein them.. and liked them more, and always remember they had sex with someone the day after me, and then cam back to me like a day later or somethin..

thats just me, because i would have feelins for them, and i'd end it before things would get worse, and the situation would annoy me even more

 

wouldn't say anything to them about it... no business of mine... mutually agreed upon afterall... if the fuck-buddy scenario started to change and either of us found we had more of an emotional bond, then something more would have to be discussed and agreed upon... i.e. new boundaries agreed upon...

 

fuck buddies
If it was that easy for you, how easy do you think it is for any other guy?
condom

 

That's a bad reason to not to have sex. Besides, anyone with even the slightest narcissistic tendencies can assume they are getting laid because they are special

 

I never said not to have sex

 

Anyone who has sex with people without a condition of full disclosure is a fucking idiot who is going to die, likely a painful death.

Having a fuck buddy doesn't (or at least shouldn't) mean you turn into a moron.

If you are that anxious to have sex that you don't give a fuck what diseases you are getting, then why even bother talking to them at all? Go stand on the street corner and
offer it to anyone who wanders along...

Keep in mind that it can take 3 or 4 months before a person will know they contracted aids or hiv.

And no, condoms do not make up for stupidity...

 

they dont make up for it but they can prevent it

 

Prevent what?

 

prevent your dick from touching a herpe.

 

Yes, it CAN do that, but it doesn't protect you from picking up whatever the other person may have unless the only contact you have with them at all is through the condom...

HIV was an example of how long it could be before you know what you may have picked up, it wasn't a "this is the only thing to worry about".

 

Meh, Im just glad I dont have to use condoms