Have your bi curiosity & experiences taken you beyond handjobs and blowjobs? I have been very happy with mutual hj, or bj up until the other day. I guess, like anything else,its a progession of learning your way. Sucking each others cock was great, but it never went further than that. Having my balls sucked, then having my ass eaten while being stroked off feels great. I felt like I was expected to go there when it was my turn, so I did. I licked my way down his shaft and then took his balls into my mouth and rolled them around with my tongue. Holding his cock up, I let his balls out of my mouth and licked over his taint to his asshole. The fact that he just came out of the shower helped easy my apprehension. I never really got going before he orgasmed. As I was tonguing my way to his asshole, I was stroking his cock. He was so excited that he had an uncontrolable orgasm and he blasted off. My stroking his cock caused his cum to shoot almost straight up, but slightly down. That caused most of his cum to land right on my cheek and in my ear. Is this just a natural progression for bi experimentation for you other guys?, or did you draw the line at bjs?
Nah man, that's not gay. You're just seeing what's going on over there Why can't we just call a spade a spade? there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi... but you can't suck cock and tongue asshole then claim to be a strait guy 'just experimenting' It doesn't work like that, it's self dilution and it breeds self-contempt. Just be happy with who you are.
No one was discussing labels or claiming to be just straight or unhappy. Apparently you are seeing what is going on over here :roll eyes: I hope you have no self-contempt.
oh topper...you should be a sex writer or something lol, you're the only person that can write something where i can get hard from haha
Basically, this only shows that bisexuality does not exist in functional terms for the world around you. You may be as bisexual as you happen to be. This is of very little consequence to your same sex partner who perceives you as someone who gets involved in homosexual acts and is thus, by definition homosexual. By that same token, your opposite sex partner perceives you as a being a str8 man based upon her experience at hand. The fact that you sleep with members of both sexes at different times defines your own, personal sexual orientation. For all the others, this usually bears little importance, unless you are looking for the bisexual partners who wish to partcipate in group sex experience. KD
At age 15 I suppose I was no brighter than my peers, but my curiosity level was always high. Bonding with the new guy in town was my great entrance to the world of m2m sex. We had a wonderful zone of privacy at his house and we were both willing to give ourselves permission to "go further" when what we were doing seemed so natural and right to us. We were surprised by the sheer joy of our sexual communion. We initiated each other into the ranks of the world's cocksuckers in the 69 position and had the good sense to try to put into words what we had just experienced in an unhurried afterglow session . From that point on we learned by doing and before we had graduated from high school we had done just about everything and that included anal. Sometimes I grow weary of those who talk about the pain associated with anal intercourse. IMHO, many of those folks do not see to know the difference between discomfort and pain. The discomfort I found to be fleeting when one has a patient and caring partner. With my loving partner I was eager to experience it all. And, my review of my first experience of being topped by him was so glowing that he was eager for me to "do him" which I did a few days later. HIV/AIDS has changed our thinking on anal, but for loving partners it somehow is an expression of sweet sexual communion. My teen lover and I never stopped thinking of ourselves as "regular guys" and the summer after our junior year in high school he was on his grandparents" ranch in Montana armed with a pack of condoms in case he might be "messing with girls." I was again surprised when my dearest girl friend (five years older than I) provided me with the most comprehensive and loving introduction to a woman's body and the joys of sexual intimacy. By the end of the summer I was an enthusiastic and, in my own mind, a rather competent partner; somehow, I knew this was the dominant part of my sexuality. However, I was not ready to settle down. At college and in my careeer moves I had few partners but all in long term relationships. Three males and two females besides my present partner (my wife of many years) have made my journey a very happy one. Of all my former partners I can honesty say that I loved them then and I love them still. It all adds up to much more than a blowjob.!!!
progression is just what two people wanna move on to and enjoy. I agree - fuck the labels and just concentrate on pleasure for yourself and your partner/s. Simon
