what the fuck?>????? does it take longer for every guy over 50 that has his cock sucked to cum? Oooh I want it now, he takes forever... what the fuck?
some men unload their gun in private, youll have to suck the barrel more to get the bullets out.. just saying..
Not necessarily...but you have to remember that when you are 50+ you more than likely are taking medications that can slow things down. High blood pressure meds, diabetic meds..and with those ailments can come PAD (Peripheral Arterial Disease) which causes loss of blood flow to the extremities...So, yeah, it can take longer for some men.
By the time you hit 50, you should have corrected the hair-trigger problems effecting many younger shooters. Cure one problem, cause another.
patiance, just use lots of spit and slober and hand action and it wont take long , the oldest guy i had was in his 50s
I'm only a mere lad of 49, but I'll share my experience anyway... The biggest consequence of age for me is that it takes longer to "reload" after an orgasm. In my younger days, I used to be good for three a day, and now, I can do about one a day, and each day, it takes longer and longer to get off until I "recharge" for a day. Viagra and Cialis don't seem to help this, either. I might be erect again 20 minutes after an orgasm, and even enjoy fucking until I'm exhausted, but I'm not going to cum again for a while. The second thing is emotional and/or psychological. I'm assuming that this is a guy who, for whatever reason, is single at 50-something. I am widowed after 19 years of marriage. The very last time I made love with my wife, I popped off embarrassingly quickly. (I knew the day was coming, but I had no idea at the time that it was going to be the last time.) The very first time that I had sex afterward, I didn't get off at all. I was still very much grieving my wife, and this was with a very good friend who wanted to help, but we weren't in love. I'm in a more serious relationship now, and it's still difficult sometimes. If your guy is still depressed after being widowed, divorced, or any other kind of breakup, it's going to slow him down. Anti-depressants may help the base problem, but they will make it even harder or impossible to orgasm while he's on them (depressing, isn't it!) Lastly, anytime you're with someone new, you have to just learn how their bodies work. No two people are alike. If it's a serious relationship, the time spent learning will be well worth it in the long run!
Really good post! I've had experience of anti depressants and it's a nightmare! You just can't come! Mind you, you feel happy enough... Chicken or egg?
I take anti depressents and they can slow you down, but generally if its a "new" partner it s not a big deal.
I am in an 18 month relationship with a 52 year old man. He is a workaholic and always tired. He takes meds for a medically induced arthritis condition in his ankle. The sex is wonderful-5-6 times a week. There are times when he cannot get off and the sex is still great. Some men cannot get off ever when getting head. Dave had only come 1 time in a womans mouth when we met. Damn, I give good head, cause he comes pretty regular there now. Sometimes a vasectomy will slow a man down, older men don't have the level of energy that a young man has, older men work harder as a rule and then there is drinking alchol and smoking cigarettes. All will slow an older guy down. Then there is also daily stress that the young guys don't have. Don't let "cumming" be the priorty of lovemaking. Relax and enjoy the sex, do what feels good to the other person. Enjoy the quality time that sex gives you. Both, my guy and I, put the others pleasure FIRST and in the end, if we are happy and satified, that is just a plus. We are givers and not takers and it works for us. Just enjoy the feeling.
I'm on meds for Epilepsy, which have the side effect of retarding ejaculation during sex. However, this only seems to apply when with a partner. When masturbating myself it doesn't seem to have any effect. Because of this, when I have a sex date with anyone, I have to allow at least 24 - 48 hours in advance, so I can hold back from masturbating, so as to make ejaculation easier when the time comes. At one time I was on Anti Depressants (Prozac), and they were even worse, leaving me unable to ejaculate at all - even by masturbating. I know it might seem like a joke, but this really is depressing when it happens, and far more than outweighs any advantages the Anti Depressants were supposed to have had (not that I noticed any). Furthermore, I know that Beta Blockers can have the same sort of side effect - as can many recreational drugs - which can also cause permanent harm. To many, they may think that it's a useful way of increasing stamina - especially if they are otherwise victims of premature ejaculation, but believe me, it's no advantage when you have to give up & finish off by hand because your partner is getting sore from extended penetration & can't take it any more.
I'm still several years from 50, but it does take alot longer than it did when I was a kid. Not necessarily a bad thing.
Yeah, the only thing I've seen with age is the reload time increases from a few minutes to now a whole day. As for guys taking a long time to shoot off from sucking, that is an individual thing that even varies with the guys. I've sucked young guys (20) and old guys (62) and the age was not a factor. The young ones could take as long as the old ones. (Also, the 62-year-old surprised me with the amount of cum he let loose - nearly choked me )
I've found that younger guys tend to climax sooner, but I think that's not so much a physical thing, but a mental one. The younger guys are naturally less experienced & therefore become more excited. Even when it comes to solo masturbation mental stimulation often counts for up to 90% of the real pleasure. Before I had access to the internet & the most I had in the way of porn was the same old mags masturbation wasn't much more than a physical sexual release. Now, with the use of porn videos, each session is a positive delight.
