Want it really bad but can't get the head in! WAH! Help and suggestions PLEASE! Relaxed, use a great slippery lube, and no luck.
did you try slowly and gently fingering with one finger, then once it took that finger add another slowly and gently fingering? You've *got* to stretch it before trying to put the cock in there or you risk tearing something or just hurting your partner.
Not an anal sex virgin but it's been a couple of years--dh uses "Vitamin V" now and I think the Viagra makes him bigger and/or harder. Dang it!!! Tried and tried for about 30 minutes the other night.
you may have to use fingering/toys to stretch you out beforehand if it won't fit as easily anymore. Not treating you as a anal virgin, but this is generally what people have to do, even if they are experienced.
You should buy a tapered butt plug and have it in your butt during foreplay so you're somewhat loose for anal.
Just work your way back into it. After regularly doing anal sex, you'll be all set. My wifes asshole is well-trained with lots of anal!
:smilielol5: Reminds me of what an old friend who thought it was gross used to say about it; "My dick isn't a shit dipstick!"
Some people are born with more stretchy anuses. I'm not one of those people. Part of the deal of getting me is no anal. You can try toys in there or fingers and possibly work your way up.
Right you are. My wife's anus isnt super-stretchy but its been taking my dick for many, many years now. I do think everyone is different. My wife has a friend that has tried it and cant deal with it all - she thinks my wife is crazy doing anal all the time.
