Last week I had sex for the first time but I kinda had a little problem. It took me a while to actually get an erection, which is kinda embarrassing although she said it's ok, in the end we did end up having sex but I want to know why did I have such a problem; it took me abut 10-15 mins to get an erection. I don't have a problem when mastabating. I dnt know if it wid make a difference nut I am 16 n I was a little nervous
when you are doing that just relax, and don't get so nervous. that is the reason why you have trouble in getting an erection
the following men also had a problem getting a boner the first time with a girl but it all worked out in the end[no pun] elton john liberace boy george tony curtis richard simmons butt i dont think it was nerves
Friend, think of sex as sweet communion. That is the beauty of it and the mystery of it. You need more than a girl. You need a girl who has become for you a friend. And when friends become more than friends, sex comes about quite naturally. The sex will seem so right because it confirms the bond that already exists between you and your partner. Your partner's vagina is much more than a substitute for your hand. You have learned to jerk off all by yourself; your hand has been fascinated by your cock since your first days of life. Somehow you have come to sense that your cock's destiny is to be "at home" in your girlfriend"s vagina. Make sure that the progress of the friendship is directing things and not your fears of the new; this is not masturbation, this is something wonderfully new.