Hi people. I would like peoples opinions, I know labels aren't really important and to a degree I do not agree with there use. However it is simpler to tell someone your label than explain your life story and let them conclude a label. I basically want to know if you had to give me a label what would it be, As at the moment I feel that I would be unjustified giving myself a 'Bisexual' label. So whilst I think im straight, I might not be straight by other peoples definitions. So im looking for peoples opinion on what label I fit into. Well firstly I am a 20yr old male, and would consider myself a open minded person regarding many issues, sex, drugs, political view ect... I find females attractive and have feeling for females like any other straight guy would. Theres no arguing that, this is not an issue. However I would happy be J-Offed by a guy and would return the favour, same with a BJ. I wouldn't let a guy top me but I myself might top a guy given the moment was right. I realise this comes across as Bisexual behaviour, yet this is where im confussed a bit. I don't find guys attractive physically nor sexually. I would never kiss a guy ever, this is a total turn off tbh. Basically I don't see a male as male when carrying out a sexual act, I find it hard to distunguish between a male and a female when im carrying out a sexual act. I just think of both males and females as sexual energy thats there for the taking, I dont see males/females as if they have a certain gender if that makes sense. I might just be a horndog, as I do it because I can. Because I feel comfy with doing whatever, I could give up the same gender stuff up tomorrow if needs be, as I don't have any emotions/feeling for the same gender at all. I thought that to be a true Bisexual you need to have an emotion for the same gender but I do not. Another thing, I find trans-women {shemale} sexually and physically attractive, but I wouldn't have a relationship with one. I am picky, prefering the more feminine type ie Kimber James. I would, let a trans-woman fvck me, I would even kiss/snog a trans-woman, Which I know is a bit contradictory. I understand some of this is a bit wierd and none of it really makes sense but I am a tad bit confussed. Hope someone can help out!
so you're bi on a sexual level but straight on an emotional level. what i would say to people is "I'm straight, but I'm pretty open-minded about things." haha
Okay, see, I would say that I'm by, but on the scale, about 80/20 leaning more towards men.... it would be wrong to say that I was fully bi, cause that would mean an equal 50/50 percent chance for both genders (or rather all genders LBGTQ) and I don't find myself as attracted romantically to women as much as men, even though I'm attracted sexually about 50/50 to both of them. There is no set spot, think of it more like a scale without numbers but there's two extreme ends and endless oppurtunities in the middle.
Hey I'm attracted to both men and women. I don't want a label either because I can appreciate both men and women. My preference is men first, then woman. If I can't find a man, I'd bank on a woman. Can I ask, are you pleasing to the eye? Recently the way I look has changed and I'm bigger and more masculine, so I'm confident with my sexuality. You sound curious, whereas I've actually done the deed. I like my women toned, and they have to be smaller then me. That's another story. Performing oral on a man, conscentual or respected doesn't dispence your curious thoughts about the pleasures of "bisexuality". You wouldn't let a guy "top" you because you think it's wrong. It's a social norm for men to penetrate, and not to be penetrated by other men. It's easy to say that you'll top. I've topped "guys" and "chicks". I liked it both ways, however male subs present a challenge. I have preconcieved thoughts about how men should conduct themselves. I find masculine, beefy guys attractive. Even more when their passive because i'm a show off. (Long story). You don't need emotions for another guy, just lust. You'r into queens and drama. I prefer a real """" whose confident in his sexuality. When you're had an experience with a guy then you understand.
Thats a good answer! I fully understand the concept of a scale yet this just gives you a ratio, and does not differentiate between your orientation {label} and your sexual behaviour, and to an extent your way of thinking when it comes to sexuality. However if I had to put myself on such a scale it would be 99 percent straight. 1. Am I pleasing to the eye, yes I am pleasing to the eye. Am I attractive, well thats relative according to the on lookers ideas of attractive. 2. You are right socially a guy does the penetrative stuff. I would not let a guy top me simply because it doesn't intrest me, also I don't like to be dominated by a guy, im very much one to be incharge in a male environment. However a trans-woman, i'll let her do anything tbh. Contradictory I know. 3. Lust is a strong word, I don't feel anything like lust i'll just do it as I don't think anything is wrong with it. 4. What do you mean im into "queens and drama"? Also I am confident in my sexuality I just dont know what exactly it is or seen to been. 5.Experience, No ive not had hardly any MM experiences. Ive had one, a few years back with a friend where we engaged in some frottage. It was spur of the moment kinda thing and it was very enjoyable pleasure wise. Im not in contact with this person anymore, and since then I will never do anything MM with a friend again. There is no point if theres no attraction involved and you could end up losing a friend. May as well do something with someone else. Thanks all.
I'm partial to spend at least 3 hours everyday rendering my physique and appearence to be easy on the eyes. That's why I rather be "top". Althought being flexible is another discussion. I think women should just be women. I, on the otherhand think that "lust" is the best word to use. Given my experience it causes deeds of "pleasure". When I said "queens and drama" was refering to parading about a lack of decision making. If the matter isn't really important or your've answered your own question, there's really now need to think about it. I'm inclined to believe that you were curious. You had the experience, and didn't think it was all that. Why pander about it?
If you asked me, you sound bicurious, but only you can determine what you are. Me I'm kinda like that too but the opposite; I have feelings for women more than men, but sexually women at the very least don't make me feel anything or at most turn me off. But yeah what's in a title? You are you-sexual
What Are You ? You are Beautiful , And Special , and theres no one out there exactly like you. You are you............and thats good enough ! Peace
Seriously, I wouldn't think anyone's special. He's unique you mean. He may find being refered to as special offending.
Even Special people are special...I have two granboys that have autism...and they are special too..... God dont make mistakes....everybodys special...Unique...one of a kind.
