I love the kid to death, I really do. But at the same time. I fucking hate him. He's ditched me all week to hang out with a different group of friends. We hung out ONCE, for like two hours, because he didn't want to go get shampoo by himself. Yet he's hung out with them everyday. But he bitches at me because we 'dont talk anymore'. He bitches at me because we haven't hung out in awhile. He bitches at me bc I called other people my best friends...they are some of my best friends. I've tried talking to him, he's always too busy with his other friends to talk or hang out. I asked him what he was doing Sunday, and he said going on a 'magical journey to a faraway land'. So I said he should bring me, because we haven't been hanging out much like I said. He said, 'Well this journey's kind of just for me.' WHAT THE FUCK, and you complain about how we aren't like best friends anymore? About how I'm ditching you? I don't get it. I'm so mad and upset but most of all I'm hurt. I love him more than anyone, but I really really hate that kid.
The only person you should be that upset about not hanging out with you often is someone youre fucking.
Don't worry, i've had the same situation. He is hanging with other people to fill his ego, I wouldn't be surprised they were a little younger than you in the end though, they always come crawling back. Maybe by you calling other people 'your best friends' you made him either jealous or plain fearful or being dropped himself. He ditched you in a premeditated sense. Do you tell him he is your best friend as well?
You really didn't even need to read the first line, the thread title summed it up. Hating your best friend. Makes a total lot of sense don't it?
hates a strong word .. im sure you dont hate him, but just how he acts sometimes! .. talk it out with him. tell him how youre feelin. best friends can talk about that kind of stuff
So what you're all saying is that it's not possible to love someone you're not fucking? It's not possible to miss someone you're not fucking? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. I love him LIKE A BROTHER. I miss him BECAUSE WE USED TO HANG OUT ALL THE TIME. Are you retarded? If you're incapable of loving anyone else but your lover, you're going to lead a very sad life. Good luck with that.
Yeah, that would be dumb. However... I'm kinda thinking there might be more to it than that. It doesn't have to be about fucking. But I'm betting it's more than just brother/sister love - maybe for him...possibly for you...could be both. Or maybe I'm wrong, okay? Anyway if you can't talk about it, it's never gonna get resolved. And if he won't talk, then you can't talk. You can rant about it if it makes you feel better. I can sympathize. I know what that's like, only too well... Talking is the thing. But it kinda looks like there's not much communication, even if there is talking, of which it looks like there's not much. You can try...and that's all you can do.
My best hommie is also hanging out with people that attend to his new alter ego as a bible teacher, which differs so much from his ordinary self. Things would be so much more easier with friends if you could just buy one and get one free.
