I know that, in a romantic relationship, sex while tripping is really great because of the emotional connection and sort of one-ness with each other, not to mention it feels sublime and you do it like fucking animals. But has anyone ever had sex with one of their (good) friends while tripping? What was different? What was the same? Let's hear it.
I definitely wouldn't be able to fuck a stranger while tripping but I was talking about people you know well enough already and with whom you have a fwb-ish kind of relationship. And tell us more about how it was ten years ago when you were still doing it
I've only had sex with friends on psychedelics. None of my girlfriends ever have been into psychedelics (unless we count weed). So I have nothing to compare it to but pretty much everything you said about having sex with your romantic partner could be applied to friends too, maybe to a lesser degree. The oneness feeling is there, there is emotional connection but perhaps certain substances like LSD have a certain awkwardness in causal sex to them that might not be present if you were with someone who you had a romantic relationship with. Definitely feel the animalistic feelings maybe even to a higher degree because of the fact you are acting on heightened sensations and desire opposed to logic and rational. Like my friend said after we were done once that when she was walking behind me she felt like she was stalking her prey. And while that may be common place for some women to say it was definitely not for her.
Well I had just girlfriends first and we would find guys to join us on tripping nights. My girlfriends were basically all lesbiens and it was for thier role play pleasure to tell them what to do and use bondage and such on them. I have been to trip patries where everyone arrived coupled, dosed, got naked, started fucking, asked how your girlfriend was and eventually went orgy. Or you got that hot friend you want to dose with alone to get them in bed, that works great, for girls or guys. OP, what is the purpose of this anyways? What are you looking for.. If its ok to do it, just interested in experiences, if you should do it yourself? What are you looking for?
I tripped with a good friend (w/ occasional benefits) a week ago and I noticed that I really couldn't stop thinking about fucking her while we were tripping. It was definitely palpable and she teased me a couple times asking "what's sex like on LSD" but I had decided before we dropped that we were going to control ourselves on that trip. It was her first LSD trip and second trip ever afaik and I don't really want to be the guy who doses a naive little girl to get into her pants while she's getting her mind blown. Even though we'd had sex before, this prospect just felt kind of dirty (the bad kind of dirty). I really really wanted to just say "fuck it" and put the moves on her right there but I would've felt disappointed in myself since I'd decided not to initially. She didn't fly off the fucking handle like some people and overall she was obviously lucid and in control enough to know what she wanted, so she's definitely getting it next time
i reallllly doubt i'd be able to have sex with someone i didn't know very well while tripping. friend or otherwise. in that case...DO IT!
Set and setting, spur of the moment You're a man, you would turn down some hot chicks wanting to take advantage of you while tripping? Even I wouldn't turn that down, if they were hot.
If you get into a sexual mindset and get kind of aroused it really takes care of itself. All about set. If you don't let yourself do that and instead end up thinking anxious thoughts about it then yeah. No matter how much I was trying to suppress it, the fact that I really wanted my friend (and I think that she wanted me as well) came through in all kinds of subtle body language and automatic flirting. At the very least I'd definitely be able to tell much more easily than if I were sober whether or not the person I'm talking to is interested.
Then what's the problem? I thought she was younger and you felt you were taking advantage of her or something. It's very normal to have sexual partners without a relationship. If you guys are already active then you should take advantage of it whenever you can my friend.
Yeah I was just iffy about the fact that I'm experienced with psychs and she isn't and I'm basically giving her a mind-bending chemical. Trying to lay someone in a situation like that just isn't my style. Do you remember your first few trips? Probably would've been pretty uncomfortable dealing with a horny guy while you were so far out without a map. But like I said, a little ways into the trip it became apparent that she could handle herself and that she was probably pretty down as well. I just held out because I told myself that I would before we began. It was really "fun" I guess to build up all that tension, both of us knowing explicitly that it wasn't going to happen on that day. Not really fun but you know. Exciting.
That's rough. Must be good for your self esteem though But yeah me and her are friends first and that day was about friendship.
Not really that great for my self esteem, in the way that you are thinking. Men are very dirty dirty things.
