should i be offended or not??????

He's being an asshole. Most likely not intentionally, he probably thinks he's adorable, but still. No use talking to him about it, that never works. Next time he says it, punch him in the face and roll him off you, then withhold for a few days/weeks because that's how men learn.

 

yeah hes bein a dick!!!!!... if it were me, i'd tell him it makes me feel bad when he says it. If he doesnt know he's hurting you by sayin it he's not goin to stop .. so i think you should let him know.. xx

 

i have heard that term before. it has something to do with a sport of some kind.
i can't recall what that sport was though.
well, that does not matter anyway.

just ask him to stop saying that because, it bothers you.

if he won't stop it, just give him one hell of a hard kick in his balls, so that they shoot up into his eye sockets.
that will show him that you can really 'kick him off' indeed!

 

Tell him you don't need legs to kick him out of bed.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

Maybe you should read some of the posts the OP has made?

 

Does it embarrass you because of your disability?
If it bothers you say something.

 

Yeah it embarrasses me and makes me feel not sexy. It also turns me off.

 

ok, i did not make myself clear. i'm sorry about that, my bad.

i ment to use your arms to kick.
almost everyone thinks kick means legs. we can kick with our arms too. in alot of respects arms are better to use for kicking.

if he pisses you off anymore, grab his a sensitive part of his body.(breast, ears, hair, dick and/or balls)
pull and twist with one hand and, kick him off you with the other arm and hand.

that is basic self-defense.
people with no arms can fight an armed attacker and defeat them.
a person with no legs can do it also.
even a person with neither arms or legs, can still do it with their head and trunk.

thank you xac, for pointing out, i needed to express myself in more detail.

 

Tell him how you feel. It couldn't hurt.

 

I really have no investment in this, but i feel compelled to respond to this because it is in my nature.

I don't believe you, I don't think you were paying attention to her threads, it isn't wrong or anything. It's just that it doesn't make sense, any of it. Kick with your hands? who the hell says that? "Kick him off" is a sports expression? I admit i don't know the most about sport but really?

 

all i can assume is ...

Men enjoy being in control , having power and overall enjoy their egos being fueled.

The fact that u cant get him off and him telling you that just probably means that u need to try harder to meet his "standards" per se

If your gonna look at it from another angle .. hes quite insecure to mask his inability to properly get "kicked off" by you .. probably an erectile issue.. i wouldnt know.

hope your issue gets sorted out