well i know with my ex i used to just give her little things to show her tha im paying attention... like if were walking through the mall and she sees something cute that she says she likes... next time im out i might pick it up for her... its just the little suttle things that show that your paying attention and that you love em
I remember my ex use to know when i changed my nail varnish, simple and silly I know, but it showed he really did pay attention to me, and he usually doesn’t care much for make up and girlie things. Things I do to show I care is by giving my partner massages, and sending him emails just to say hello and to cheer him up when I know he will have a tough day.
My hubby and I send emails or text messages during the day just to let one another know that we're thinking of each other. Sometimes I write little love notes and put them in with his lunch so that when he's at work, he is reminded of how much I love him, even if I don't say it all of the time. I like to make his favorite meal or favorite dessert, especially if he's had a hard day. I thank him for just about everything, from sex to picking up another gallon of milk for the kids. lol I always want him to know that I appreciate what he does, despite the fact that I might pick on him at times. Ooooh, I love that man. Peace.
Just talking is a huge part of "us". He listens most of the time.There is one thing he really likes though. We make it realy cold in the bedroom, like, if it's during the winter, we open a window and turn the ceiling fan on. Or if it's during the summer, we put the a/c on full blast and a fan on. Then we lay in the bed, just cuddling, and I listen to him, and we talk for hours and hours. Every now and then, we'll do it afterwards, but most of the time we'll make out then fall asleep.He likes to know that I'm there for him when he needs it. When we were going to school together, and he would get a spontaneous hard-on, I would wrap my arms around him and kiss his neck, so he wouldn't feel embarraassed about it.
I saw it mentioned about text messaging and stuff like that. I do that with my boyfriend.... if I'm at work, and I can't talk to him. I just throw him a quick text to say hey, and if he was coming over after work, or whatnot. Sometimes I send him little messages through my online journal, which he religiously reads. Othertimes, I usually write him letters, and hide them in his pocket. If I'm talking to him I tell him to check his pockets. I made him a cd of all the songs that remind us of one another. With an explaination of each one. He says it's his favourite. One of these days, I'm going to go to the key engraving place and get a key that says "I <3 U" and give it to him and put it on his keychain. I'm a hopeless romantic, I can't seem to help myself.
fuck the little things, if you really are a nice person (obviously you are since you are worrying about the little things) the little things will happen without you thinking about it. worry more about the big things, the things that really warms her heart(things that connect to her childhood really help) they are alot more signifigant
