Hi : ) Ok, so I'm 21 and a virgin. I think that I'm very likely to stay a virgin for quite a while, because I'm very shy, socially anxious, and find it extremely difficult to connect with people. So, I think it'll be a while before I have any sex at all, even though I want to. (Unless I pay for it, kidding) Here's the question, will it be a major turnoff to a guy if I get to be 25 or 26 and still a virgin? Thanks for reading
personally no its more of a turn on. It shows that you had respect for yourself/ body.. Im not saying those freaks out there don't they just prefer a different walk and they enjoy the walk that they have....
Honestly I still wish I was one. I don't think it'd be a turn off at all. Its a good thing to wait, don't worry about men or in our case boys. The time will come and when it does you'll be happy you waited.
I have a friend who sounds like you except he's a guy, I don't think he even kissed a girl until he was 21 or 22, and he didn't loose his virginity until 24 with his first real girlfriend. They make an excellent couple, and I doubt she cared. You just have to find the right person. But I don't think too many guys are going to be upset that you have slept with too few people, or none.
I think it's just fine, & I wouldn't worry about it if that's your choice. There's a difference between wanting to & not having done so, & purposefully not having done so. I'm a virgin, although I'm not in my 20's yet, & I haven't met a girl yet that was turned off by it. I'm usually very direct with it, so they don't care too much about it, & I only worry about telling a girl I'm a virgin if I really like her, & if the feeling is mutual, in the end she doesn't care. I've still been able to get girls horny with them having that knowledge, so I'd say it's not a problem at all. I'm not really waiting for marriage, just until I'm with a girl that I trust 100%. At the end of the day, being a virgin is a choice, & if someone doesn't understand that, they likely aren't worth your time, & are too immature for you anyway. You make these type of choices to make yourself happy, not other's.
Exactly, Don't worry about it because when you're with someone who is worth it they won't either. I've met a lot of guys and almost dated them when I was a virgin but it always turned me off that they would almost be too attracted by the fact I was a virgin. Like every one of them thought I was just going to throw myself at them right away because I must be desperate to lose it. That is what you call pricks. Stay away from those. I lost my virginity to my fiance; when we first started dating and I told him I was a virgin, he didn't care at all. He actually respected me more for being 17 (I'm 18 now)and not having been with a bunch of men already.
There are a lot of girls who would love... absolutely love that you are a virgin. On the other hand, if you're 35 and a virgin, I would recommend seeing a professional. I'd say even 33, while rare and even a little odd, isn't too late... so you've got a long way to go.
i lost mine when i was 21 almost 22. 99.5% of people wont give a crap either way, the only thing they might ask is why you waited so long. If you want it bad, or just want to meet people you just have to put yourself out there. If you want to do something with someone you have to ask them. I never had a g/f and only kissed a girl twice before that (neither really counted), but now that I have a g/f and have a little more confidence, it seems I cant keep them off me. You just got to put yourself out there,
