New partner after a long term relationship

So there's my "little" problem driving me crazy right now. I've been with a girl for ~1 year till now. It was my first long (for me) friendship with sex we've lost our virginities together and so she was (and still is) my only sex partner.

Now we've broke up and im getting just crazy about this all situation. I cannot think about having sex with other girls. It's just cant fit in my dumb head. I've got used to that gf's body and atitude about sex too much.

It's like that my first girl is the only person with whom i could have sex and that makes me afraid of trying to find another one.

So i just wish if someone got any experiences like this if you could share them and maybe that'll make my situation better or smth.. or any advice would have worth of gold.

Thanks and sorry for my bad English.

 

If you find another female to be in a relationship then you will have to learn her body the same. Just do alot of foreplay your first time around with the next person you are intimate with. Figure out what makes her "feel nice." Sometimes you get it right the first time around. The key is to maintain confidence in yourself and focus on the person you are being intimate with.

 

It may be a strange and a bit scary idea now.. but when more time passes the desire/lust/passion for another girl will take over from your doubts and fear. Unless you're still in love with your ex.. you seem to have a hard time letting go of her physically and I wonder if there is an emotional reason for that as well. Try to get some closure and try to move on.. it'll probably cost time though, but don't worry.. it's normal and you'll get there.

 

I don't know if im in love with my ex. Well some warm feelings remains no doubt, because after time passes i start to forget the 'bad' things and only good memories pops up sometimes.. Maybe the best medicine to use is time.

Thank you for replies.

 

I think you should take ur time and heal urself...i know that having another partner would be hard cause she was ur first and because u got adjusted to her body but with time u will realise that there are some many wonderful people out there just waiting for u to meet them...so many experiences....so much sex (be careful though)...just take it all in stride...it will be alright