After 3 and a half years, I am once again single.

And am in the process of moving back in with my parents, letting her keep the house and the dog.

I'm not feeling very great about myself right now.

 

Bullshit! You get to start over....but smarter and wiser. Its an opportunity

Sooner you realize that, the easier it will be

 

I guess I'll find out.

 

Really, I have started over many times. I always ended up better off. I mean, real harsh devastating shit.....it made me better and propelled me into a elevated place in my life. Ride the wave, feel your pain, then get up with what you have learned and march on

 

Oh, I'm 25, and starting a new career after getting a degree, and live with my parents again. Don't feel so bad.

 

Not fun, not pleasant. Sorry to hear that. :grouphug:

 

So is she single right now?

....

 

I have gone through a similar problem last month, which is a horribe thing to endure at the wake of the summer. In due time, I hope that you will anyway get over it, my son.

 

I was moved out with my girlfriend the last couple of years, up in the student area of my town. Now I am home with the parents, starting a degree again (second one, quit first) and have no relationship. I can't even get a job right now, either. I'm twenty four, so whatever man, it happens.

Things will sort themselves out for everybody, eventually. Relationships go like that, they can send the rest of your life out of whack completely.

 

i'm jealous. sometimes i want to start over, minus living with the parents.

 

There are few wrong choices in life. You're just being directed to the correct path. It can seem so hopeless though, when you are in the middle of it.

 

Yea, a firing squad would be preferable to moving back in with the folks no matter how pristine they’ve kept your room over the years in the hope you'd fail and come back home to the nest



Hotwater

 

This is an episode in the lives of many. Many know what you are going through. It is an episode in a life that does not fail and the only disappointment we may truly know is that we had not participated fully. You move on for higher purposes, you have not failed.

 

I for one wish my children sufficient success that they are not required to move back in.

 

That’s what all parents say (but they lie)



Hotwater

 

parents are evil nesters trying to grabby grabby you back into their homes so they can stuff you with sausages and question your every move.

 

i can't wait to miss my kids.

we're gonna build a guest house on our land when we get around to buying it.

 

She was obviously not for you. Be thankful you can break clean with no kids...

It may be an ending, but it is also a beginning.

 

3 and a half years is not bad.

At least you did not waist a real long time.

Understand you are not feeling great. That is understandable.

Stay busy.

Time cures a broken heart or some bull crap like that.

Been there, done that,...well minus the moving back home part.

Anyway, I made it and seem to be okay.

So will you will make it.

 

thats what im saying..

be happy theres no kids involved, or a marriage, cause she'd get your ass then.

take it as just another break up. take a deep breath and learn. i understand you feel bad but at least you have your parents to take you back in. you're still very young too.

Ive always said this.. you lose someone because there's someone else even better.