i think that the effort is great...to want to change for someone....dont you ever feel that the harder you try the more yu are a failure sometimes??? It feels that way for me at times.
she seems open to it, although we have never done it, we tried once.......maybe I´m not into it, I´m not sure.
well I only was commenting on your ex's, and somehow got roped into it being your ex's asholes. reread the thread if the details remain fuzzy.
I can relate to that.........I too am still playing "catch up", have my own place, but havent gone to school yet and I dont have many of the goal accomplished that I should have by now and still they are willing to help me pay for school and get caught up.