Hi there, i just want 2 ask something but b4 that i would like 2 tell u about my relationship. I've been in this for long time and the only thing that hasn't happened is Oral sex. I always wanted 2 give woman head but my lady thinks it's disgusting. She doesn't let me do it and doesn't gv me head either which i don't mind. However i really want to eat her out which she wont let me. Ijust wan't to ask one thing if i gt her naked and ( i don't want 2 rape her) just dive in do u think she will like it instantly and take it or will she say no and push me away. Is she able 2 stop me from doing it. Thanks in advance. Btw we don't drink at all so i can't gt drunk with her etc.
It's ironic you say you don't drink because I was going to suggest seeing if she'd be more open to the idea after a few drinks.
I really don't understand that women, I met a few of them before, they didn't want me to do that, with one I had a long relationship, after long time, and after so many tries, she accept and never stop to tell me how good she feels when I do that... never mind... ask here to relax, let here lie down or sit, or what ever, tell here you will not go there but start to kiss here around that place... when you understand she get hot start to light blow on here clitoris from distance.. you have to be patient.. maybe you need to do that a few times, maybe for a few days, in the same moment don't talk about anymore, every day go closer with your light blow... and than make it happen... It works to me a few times before, now I would not do that anymore, there are many ladies which like to have a good time...
Ok this happened to me with my current wife. She wouldn't let me do it but I got her so worked up I kissed every square inch of her and as I got closer so the swet spot she slammed her legs shut, well let me tell you I didn't give up. I forced her legs open and kept telling her to relax and she did and within minutes she was enjoying what was happening to her. But in the end, or the next day I asked her why she wouldn't let me do it, and I guess her past boyfriends gave her a complex, and that is why she didn't want me to do it. Now she can't get enough. So either work her up and force yourself in there or talk to her about it. Good Luck, she will enjoy it once she gets it.
I wouldn't try to force her, she won't enjoy any experience forced upon her and it will ruin any chances you have even more. Go with the slow method, kissing and loving your way there. Earn her trust and ask her to let you kiss inside her knees, then inside her thighs. Then closer. Tell her you won't do anything she doesn't want you to do, just get closer and closer. Then ask her if you can kiss her there. I hope she lets you. Also, take a shower together first, and wash each other. Once she knows she is clean, then she might feel more willing to let you in. (But no soap inside her!!)
My wife would not let me go down on her for over 40 years. Then all of a sudden she liked it. I have no idea why she changed her mind. But if I were you, I wouldn't force the issue. Keep talking to her in a non-threatening way assuring her that she'd probably love it.
