Ever done it on purpose? I don't mean trench coats in the park, but if you know someone is coming over, intentionally find a way to be nude in front of them with no way to cover up? SIL is coming by tomorrow morning, I have a rough idea when but I was thinking of being downstairs getting coffee while the wife is getting ready in the upstairs bathroom, when she shows up she usually walks right in. I'm sometimes a big groggy in the AM anyway :coffee: She knows I'm a bit of a nudist around my house and we flirt and mess with each other all the time, it's kind of my turn to shock her.
That is not a nudist, that is an exhibitionist. Big difference. Personally, I don't think it would be such a great idea and it is really tacky in my opinion. I would think that if your SIL wanted to see you in the buff, she would of already asked to.
Well, it almost happened by accident anyway. Wife and SIL had gone outside getting ready to leave for shopping. I came back downstairs for another cup of coffee thinking they'd left already. As I was leaving the kitchen my SIL walked back in to use the bathroom. I was just turning the corner out of sight as she came in. Had I turned and walked back in for no reason that may have been "exhibitionism" but had I been in the kitchen it wouldn't? And BTW, I think most Nudist have a bit of an exhibitionist in them anyway.
Nudists are not exhibitionists and do not accept exhibitionists into their fold. We have enough trouble getting wide public acceptance without having flashers, perverts, exhibitionists and trenchrats causing a ruckus. That's why many nudist resorts carefully screen singles for their bona fides and behaviour. Anybody flashing me is likely to be left in no doubt as to my feelings about it.
The presence of clothes make this sexual. If he was a naturist and naked there would be no question of exhibitionist would there? Context and intent. If it was done to shock or just an accident.
And just how would you know that someone nude in front of you didn't plan it that way. Give me a break, this holier than though nudist vs exibitionist BS is just that, BS. If you didn't want to be seen nude you'd cover up.
Well Caster, remember she's hanging with someone. It's a very thin line here somewhere... I you flash yourself too bluntly you'll spoil her trust and she'll tell her partner. She'll stop beeing the same agreeable joking sort of flirty person and your spouse's face might turn dark. That would definitely count as a loss.
