There is always some measure of apparent dissolution going on, harm has no face. How a child reacts to whatever extremes of environment is a reflection of what he or she puts into the world. Outlook affects output not outcomes. Life is perpetually emergent.
Yes, there definitely will be someone awesome out there for you. Chances are you're not going to meet him right now, because you have about a decade head start on emotions and being connected to the world around you in such ways. So don't expect perfect guys yet. My girlfriend and I were perfect together (at 15/16 for her and 16/17 for me) in every way. We were truly and completely in total love. But I was never quite in touch with the world of emotions and understanding people, and that drove us apart. It was an amazing year and a half and completely worth it. The point of that is to say that you may find your love soon, but he may not be ready for you. But one thing you can fix right now is your attititude towards guys. Frustration is warranted, but many of us are have much more depth and interestingness than you think. You may even find yourself wishing you had more. So chin up, and good luck.