I am not well liked

I am a really trustworthy, intelligent, funny, easy going guy with a good moral compass and who is not boring. I have cool hobbies, take good care of myself, good hygiene, etc etc and I know alot of people (acquantences) who never have anything bad to say about me yet I am only good enough when they want something. I never get invited to anything ever. Even though there are people in my life that we have the same interests, same hobbies, same sense of humor I am not included in anything....If I initiate something or invite them then most people kinda disappear for a while (I assume they are avoiding me on purpose) then will suddenly reappear when they want something or our lives interconnect somewhere and they act like all is well. The sad part is I am losing the will to connect with anyone on any level..I no longer feel the desire to care about others or invest any more time having conversations with anyone because what is the point.

 

i feel the same way. i don't have a problem with it, though. i feel comfortable being apathetic to other people. it's much less stressful than worrying about why people don't like you. also, you didn't mention it, but are you ugly? this could be the reason people don't like you.

i would suggest you go see a prostitute. good for stress relief, especially if you slap her around a little. give her an extra five bucks if you do though.

 

Find new friends. I had that, I dropped them like a sack of shit

then when they heard I was hanging around with someone else, they became furious and starting calling all the time. It was too late, the middle finger came out and stayed out.

If you have hobbies, interests, are easy to get along with and are everything you claim- i'm sure you'll have no trouble meeting someone NEW.

 

Dump the friends. There is someone for everyone, seems like. Even the really ugly rotten people. Cliche as hell.

 

Do you invite people places or to do things with you?

I felt the same way you do (still do somewhat) but now I invite people to go to the movies or to do stuff with me, and they usually do the same with me. I am not really close to these friends., but they are my friends.

Try to invite some people to do stuff with you and I bet they will start inviting you to do more things.

 

obviously to the case, seeing there are only a few replies to your Post..

"I don't like you, either! You just watch yourself; we're wanted men. I have the death sentence on 12 systems!" ...

Welcome to Hip Forum..

 

Well said. They are not the type of people you need to be around if they dont even care about you or want to be around you just to be around you. Sometimes when people are really nice they attract users and it sounds like that's what's going on in your case. There are plenty of people out there who will have fun with you and want to be around you cause they like you as a person and not for what you can help them with or give them. Good luck!

 

It sounds as though you're very confident with yourself and are aware of your own qualities. That is good. It is sad (your situation) but don't focus on it. If you believe you're everything you say you are then you'll not have a hard time finding some great friends who would like to invest in getting to know you and spending time with you. 90% of being someone is believing you are what you are portraying. Be confident, as you seem to be, and people will be drawn to you. Nevermind any of the other bullshit.

 

That was very Disney of you, brought a tear to my eye

 

I am in the same situation as you, except that I am neither that trustworthey, nore do I take good care of myself, and my hobbies are totally uncool, and border along being completly obnoctious, which makes it all the more surprising that I am an outsider. My suspicions as to why that is the case with both of us firstly may have to do with the fact that our star signs are both cancer, I think, and because the world hates intelligent people, that have a good moral compass.

 

My Star Sign Is Cancer.........And I Most Certainly Am Not Obnoxious..:toetap05:



Cheers Glen.

 

Who says so?

 

Little Olde Me Says So............:hide:

Ya Got A Prob With That.....



Cheers Glen.

 

You said that you are obnoctious because cancer is your star sign, just to say that you are not obnoctious because of that?

 

Read Post 11 Again......



Cheers Glen.

 

admitting to believing in star signs and then calling yourself intelligent....

oh the luls

:xmastree:

 

if star signs are to be believed I am a little shit head. The notoriously callous type.

 

"It is better to be feared than liked," Macavelli

Just yankin' your chain. I don't have many friends either but then again I am a misanthrope.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

:cheers2: to misanthropy

4:16
"There's a new party being born: The People Who Hate People Party. People who hate people, come together! "No!" We're kind of having trouble getting off the boards. Come to our meeting! "Are you gonna be there?" Yeah. "Then I ain't fucking coming." But you're our strongest member! "Fuck you!" That's what I'm talking about, you asshole! Fuck off! Damn, we almost had a meeting going. It's so hard to get my people together."

My sentiments exactly.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4mFHqYr06k&feature=PlayList&p=7BB32E1A9AA894D9&playnext_from=PL&playnext=1&index=26"]YouTube- Bill Hicks - Pro life & People who hate people - Rant in E-Minor

 

I was going to start the Apathy Party but no one cared enough to show up to meetings. Which reminds me What's the difference between ignorance and apathy?
I don't know and I don't care.

Peace Out,
Rev J