to give up or keep on pushin' (girl question)

clear this up... i am am not a 27 year old lesbian but a male college student. YES i am going to change it.
anyway.
girl. want to hang out with her so bad. but every time i ask on fb chat its just. yeahhh. and nothing happens. or just ive been busy lately...
either way is ive asked so many times. so normally you'd say dude.. just fucking givee uppp..
but thing is. im gonna be moving away soon. and such a new life.
so i feel like i just need closure... ask her onneee morreee timeee...
what do u think? try and put yourself in my situation. i know most people have been in this situation. you realllyyy want to hang with this person, but u know there just not interested, but u feel in sommee way they might be. so ur eager to give it one more try. nothing to lose.. right? just my dignity.. but that won't bring me closure... advice? tips? 2 cents? and yes. ive tried calling. and its just BAD. fb is basically the only place...

 

yo bitch you wanna go out or fucking what, then maybe later fuck ... eat your pussy, whatever you like..

 

You've asked repeatedly, she's shrugged you off.
Sounds pretty clear to me.

 

Sounds like she just doesn't wanna talk to your or hang out with you. Leave her alone. lol

 

Orison has the best pick-up lines/come-ons EVER!

 

it works every time :sifone:

 

Full Ninja outfit. So you can hang out with her and she wont even know

 

it also helps if you have money.. but i dont really look for money girls. if ima spend 100 dollars on a date,, I might as well spend 100 on a hooker and get a fuck-/bj or the works rent a movie for a dollar and cook a 5 dollar pan pizza..

 

I thought from the title this thread was about childbirth.

 

maybe she's a 27 year old lesbian

someone has to be.

 

Maybe she thinks you're a 27 year old lesbian and isn't interested? How does that happen by 'mistake'?

I'm agreeing with Orisin-I'm just a little more tactful. If you want to ask her out then ask her out. Some people don't like to have a 'conversation' typing into a computer screen. She might be doing something else while she's trying to talk to you.

Tell her that you really don't like trying to talk on a computer and would really like to be able to see her face while you talk-can I get you dinner...

 

I thought this was going to be about childbirth too! Haha

But yeah, asking a girl out over facebook chat is straight up stupid. Even if I liked the guy, I would say no just because of the etiquette

 

If she wanted to hang out with you it would have already happened. FB chat is not the way to do it man . . . come on, where's the romance, the excitement, the actual risk of anything. Little window in the bottom right popping up as she's eating grapes and creeping some hot guy "hey sorry to bother u again but do u wanna hang or go on a date some time", she lets out the faintest snicker as she clicks the X and crunches down on that juicy grape.

see it! you're "that guy" to her, the one who "keeps asking me out" as she tells her best friends and they roll their eyes and laugh. Unless you can change what guy you are to her in her life, if you just "keep pushing" you are just pushing into a date with your hand, forward momentum only works when you're not facing a brick wall.

 

Usually Id say just give up but...
My current bf of almost 6 years what trying to get me to hang out for almost 2 years (via the internet) before we did hang out. I said no for a whole bunch of reasons, none of them really had anything to do with him.
It was in person though that he finally got me to hang out.

Try asking her out in person, be direct about it. That way she has to answer you, and you dont leave anyting hanging to wonder about.

 

My mom turned down my dad on his first attempt. But he asked her out in person haha. So try that or leave her alone, don't use facebook again.

 

My dad pretty much stalked my mom until she caved and they lasted for 25 years

 

i'm not assuming anything about your situation beyond what you said in the op,
my advice regardless is to let her go. embrace the travel you have ahead and embrace the new life you see yourself becoming. best wishes eace:
p..s you can choose closure. work with what you have right in front of you <3

 

people who pick up people like that scare me. Intense anger for no reason.

 

Starting new is good and she isn't the only way to find "closure".

 

howbout just to HANG OUT. as FRIENDS. how would i go about doing that on fb chat?