my girlfriend and i have been together 4 3 years and sex is just the same thing ova .. i wouldnt mind trying anal. she likes me licking her ass but thats as far as it goes. how do i get her to tray anal
cup her buns,slide your hand throgh the crach of her ass,finger her asshole a bit,that shold get her in the mood
The last thing you want to do is surprise her or try to trick her into it. If you're licking it that's a good start because that means she isn't totally foreign to something touching it. Talk to her about it and assure her that you're not going to do something that she isn't comfortable with. Let her know that if you guys do it, she will be in total control of the situation. Whatever it is that you do to get her in the mood and really horny, start with that. I thought my wife would NEVER EVER want to have anal, but with some work she eventually let me do it. It's because she trusts me and I didn't rush anything. I talked to her about it first. I also associated pleasure with it. What I mean is that I would lick her clit and really get her in the mood, lick her pussy and asshole, finger her pussy a little, start to rub her asshole while licking her clit and gently and slowly slip a finger in her ass and see how she feels about it, but she has to know you're gonna do it, no surprises(think about if she was suckin your cock and rubbin your balls and all of the sudden jammed a finger in your ass, not fun). I'm tellin' you, the key is to let her know she is in control and you're not gonna do anything she doesn't wanna do and you're not gonna hurt her. I have fucked every girl in the ass that I've dated with this approach. Good luck!
Routinely, just use the restroom a good 30 minutes before, making sure you get out everything that is there to get out. Then shower and wash the area thoroughly. The inside of the anus has a self-cleaning mechanism, so that within an hour of relieving yourself, the internal walls are pretty clean near the oening. In other words, don't worry about having to stick something up there to get it clean. Enemas are a good thing to do on a periodic basis, just to flush yourself out. Its also a good thing if its your first time because you will feel like you have to take a dump when it gets inside you, and its nice to know for sure that you are as empty as can be. Happy assplay! copy/paste..
I agree after you have done 'slippin the pinky'. And surely she'll enjoy it. Say shall we be experimental with something else. And then this is your chance to give her an anal.
This is solid gold information. I have had anal with 80% of the women I dated using the above information. And as was mentioned by other posters make sure and use LOTS of lube and she's clean internally. This can be done with enemas or making sure she has a BM before anal and a good shower. Anal is not about breaking it in or anything, it's about relaxation. Pornography sends off the wrong kind of message that anal virgins need to get their ass broken in. This is a complete lie! If you know what you are doing your girl should like anal the first time you do it and it should not hurt. If you are inexperienced it may take a few more tries for her to enjoy it but it should not be painful. The more aroused you get her the more relaxed she will become, I suggest using the technique in the above post who uses a lot of oral. As far as positions doggy style may seem really hot but it's not really for beginners because penetration can go in very very deep from this position which could be painful for a beginner who doesn't know how to relax enough. You may be able to do doggy after you have warmed her up in other easier positions. I suggest you do a position with her on top. You can do reverse cow girl if you want to get that doggy style kind of visual stimulation. That way if she's on top she can control the speed and depth of penetration. Spooning is also a good position as well as this doesn't allow you to go very fast and not as deep. Don't be afraid to use toys either. Butt plugs are GREAT for helping to relax and loosen her up. Make sure and get her a beginner size and lube is before you attempt inserting it, obviously. Also remember you can't use silicone lube with a silicone toy it will emulsify the toy over time. A good book to read is The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino. It a book about anal written by a woman so you get a good perspective. As a side note if you're going to finger her ass make sure your nails are cut AND most importantly filed. Nothing like sharp freshly cut un-filed nails to give your girl an anal fissure.
