I'm looking at my life right now and lets see whats better I got in trouble back in February and lets see how everything changed. After I got in trouble: RARELY go outside now if so its with my parents to do stupid shit.. take a shower about every 4 days since I go no where.. gained about 30 pounds.. have pretty much no social life except talking to my cousin.. and play world of warcraft almost all day long.. sounds like my sober life is GREAT. I really haven't been sober this whole time but the majority.. Being so non active I sleep like 7 hours a night tops and I cant go to bed unless I'm like completely tired I really hate it.. Before I got in trouble: I had a great social life tons of friends that I always hung out with on a regular basis was very active.. Was skinny because I was outside then we would do stuff.. Showered everyday cuz I actually wanted a good appearance.. Didnt play world of warcraft or hardly spend anytime inside.. And I slept fine at night always getting good night sleeps instead of always feeling drained like I do now.. I feel like im literally just rotting my life away right now its not even fun at all.. like it was alright cuz I mean world of warcraft took up almost all of my time and I didnt even notice this.. but I'm literally disgusted with my life right now it sucks.. and you no how everyone says everything is how you make of it well idk how im supposed to make anything good out of how my life is right now.. kinda depressing tbh.. idk id like to see what you guys have to say but I dont like my sober life at all.. I had my cellphone taken away for so long I dont even contact anyone that I used to hang out with.. Nor do I think if I did my parents prolly wouldnt even trust me after getting in trouble it sucks.. idk what to do
Dude, If you need weed to be active and enjoy life you shouldn't be smoking it. Sobriety is great. Being high is great, too, but I'd rather be permanently sober than high. Anyway, I don't know what you want someone to tell you. Quit the poor me talk. Take a walk. Call up some of the friends you used to hang out with and do something. Go for a walk. Stop eating junk food. jeez
Its more of what being in trouble does to you then being stoned all the time.. i smoked like once a day tops its not like I need to be stoned im just saying every since I got caught and have been sober.. I could rephrase it to before I got caught/after I got caught
Well change something. You're young. The world's your oyster. The internet won't help. You can only help yourself. Take it from me. I sought comfort in the internet and now I'm I'm 500 lbs and a 45 y/o virgin. Run while you can!!!! Seriously, just try to make the most of it.
Hey I'm 500 lbs and a 45 year old virgin too! Welcome bongsolo, may you one day be a 500 lb 45 year old virgin as well. You can be active and happy with or without pot. Some people just don't like to try. It's easier to keep a routine and feel bad for yourself. Don't.
stop winging, get off your ass and make things better for yourself. We all have shit to deal with, others have pulled themselves out of a mess so you can too.
try to let go of the past and embrace the present don't beat yourself up over your choices. the great news is that you feel inspired to make a change. when you feel it, go for it. go outside. call up a friend. try a new food. visit a park or museum or just go for a random walk. check out a new book. draw, paint, sing, dance, move around. do something totally different. best wishes to you eace:
Come on man seriously? Even if getting in trouble is the main "cause" for your health isses its ultimately on your shoulders. If your punished I think your parents would much rather see you running and lifting than eating shit and playing WoW. Trust me on this I was the same exact person you were 3 or 4 years ago. If you want a positive change in your life the only thing I can tell you is get a plan and just fucking do it and keep doing it until your goals are met, then keep doing it some more cuz you'll be just back where you were before. I played WoW for hours a day, now im exercising for hours a day. Its all up to you and until your ready to take the blame nothing will change.
lolz. i got busted smokin weedz so now i am a WoW nerd. srsly man, do yourself a favor and stop playing warcraft. besides, you cant blame it on sobriety. your fuckin PARENTS busted you, boohoo...it happens. go hang out with your friends, you fat stinky turd
but in truths, im kinda in the same predicament as you. got busted once by the po-leese, on probation. cool. whatever. cost me a bunch of money but i'm alright got busted again for two fuckin beers that weren't even mine n now im broke as a joke, trying to move to college with extremely thin funds to do so (like i'm talkin 50 bucks, maybe...no not even...i'm in the hole a shit ton of doe) and i might be put on supervised probation. so now i can't even smoke weed to give less of a fuck... i understand the hopelessness - i feel lost as fuck, but you can't be helpless. just get yourself outta the rut, you gotta dig yourself out.
Step 1: Stop playing warcraft. I mean computer games are great and all, I myself Love Age of Empires and Hearts of Iron, but people get too addicted to warcraft, it's just a way to vicariously live through a video game when you don't feel that good about your own actual life. Step 2: Get a bike. Exercise makes you feel both physically and mentally good. A bike is good in the fact you get exercise while going places. Use said bike to go places. Step 3: Use new found energy when going places to meet new people.
