really not sure now

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by smihtt, Aug 8, 2010.

  1. smihtt

    smihtt Member

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    I had gave a friend of mine oral a few weeks ago n wasn't sure if he would let me do it again.
    well while camping I gave him oral again and had been thinking of swallowing but when it came time for that I couldn't do it was afraid I would throw up as I had a upset stomach before I began. It was still good I think
    He rubbed me off but the one thing the first time I blew him I liked it and couldn't stop thinking about it.

    But now all I could think about while blowing him was is it over yet just couldn't wait for him to cum. it's like I really didn't enjoy it like I did the first time.
    So now I don't know what I like
     
  2. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    urmm, well first don't swallow unless you know he hasn't got any sexually transmitted diseases

    as for why you may not have liked it- a few reasons.

    - trying to repress your sexuality
    - the person is a friend, could make things weird
    - you were unwell anyways
    - not EVERYBODY likes given oral. The first time was a new experience, after all.
    - maybe you're not gay or bisexual, and you were just curious

    I am attracted to women, yet I hate giving oral for the most part. So there are people out there like that. I find it uncomfortable and a little gross.
     
  3. KewlDewd66

    KewlDewd66 Member

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    Despite popular stereotypes on the subject, sex does NOT always feel good. Hardly anyone writes a story about not enjoying it and no one really bothers to produce a porn with people not loving it. So, we are all compelled to believe that sex is ALWAYS awesome and ALWAYS the thing to go for. Simply, a common urban myth.

    You want to give it a try again. Over the time, you'll learn what works for you and what makes you tick... Sex tends to be better over the time, simply because you get to know thyself better AND because your technical skills improve, too.

    KD
     
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