Hi, i'm a stay at home mom living in NJ. I have absolutely no friends and am pretty bored and lonely. I can't leave the house because i am taking care of my young kids but would love to make some online friends. Maybe other moms like me in the same situation. Would love to have other moms to chat with.
I'm not another mom...I'm a guy but I've read some of your posts and like the way you think. My wife is boring in bed (when she actually is in the mood) and won't try new stuff. We've been married a long time and I'm looking to spice things up with anal, role playing, porn....but she is not into trying it. Our sex life is 'zip' to the point that I've had a few bi experiences. I don't see things changing with her each year she is less interested in sex.
Sorry to hear about your wife. I know how you feel. I too would love some bi experiences since i am somewhat bi-curious but has never done anything about it. And even now if i want to, it would be close to impossible since i never leave the house My kids are too small still and so all my time is devoted to them. This is another reason i don't have friends. I don't have time to be social or go places and meet people. But i'm still hoping one day.
Hi Aznmom ! I am a mom but my child is 22 now lol .I remember what it was like having little ones tho .Some times you just gotta have somebody older than 6 to talk to. It will get easier on you once they go to school you can have a little more time to yourself .I will be glad to add you as a friend and I will be here if you need someone to talk to . Melissa
Cherryberry said what I would have said My 'kids' are 25 & 20, but I remember those days. I'd pack them up & go to the nearest playground for an hour. There were always other moms there to chat to.. Once they got involved in dance, recreational sports & school, it was much easier to meet people & develop adult friendships. All of the friendships I made during that time have continued, even though the kids are out doing their own thing~
hi there... cant your mom watch them for a few hours or so?or maybe you can make friends with the neighbour? or take your kids out to a place with lots of kids and moms,maybe you can make some friends there..... and the sex....there is always nighttime.....your kids must be sleeping sometime...dont forget to lock your door
Hi Well, i never had any help with my kids from in-laws or my own parents. The in-laws live in NY and i am in NJ. They are also house sitting another one of their grandchild. As for my own mom, she works + i came from a divorced family. I don't see my mom much and my dad also lives in NY and has his other family to deal with. I have pretty much learned how to take care of my kids all from reading book and the internet. Never had any help. And as for taking the kids out and meeting other moms, i don't go out much. I don't really drive and it's so hard to take 3 small kids around. My youngest is not yet even 3 months old. The other two are 2 and 5yrs old and really hard to handle as they just want to run all over the place. I really have my hand full. so not gonna have anymore for sure. Hopfully, i am hoping to maybe try to go out more once my little one gets a little older. I will need to get back into driving. I don't like to drive and haven't driven for years but i figured, eventually i have to try.
i did everything my self also,without any help,but i always took them everywhere....i did not say it is easy,but its possible. i just took a train or bus,or go on my bike with them....i know its hard work with childeren that age,but how bad do you want to go out? only staying in the house is also not good for the childeren and you dont have to go far..
Do you live in a neighborhood setting where you're able to push a stroller around? If so, it's worth it to get a double-sized model to put the two younger kids in. The 5 year old certainly can walk along side you holding onto the stroller. Especially now that the weather is going to be perfect for walking. You'll benefit greatly by being outside in the fresh air & sunshine, getting exercise on a daily basis. Who knows, maybe another stay at home mom will see you & you'll inspire her to do the same.
Yes, i do live in a neighborhood and i can push a stroller but it's impossible. My 2 yr old refuses to sit in a stroller. We actually brought a double stroller before the baby was born and it's like sitting there doing nothing because the 2yr old won't sit in it. He just wants to run all over the place. My 5 yr old also have a problem of not listening and running all over the place. It's impossible sometimes to take them out with the husband's help so i can forget about doing it alone. I'm just hoping they will calm down more once they get a bit older.
I was/am a single dad and I know that any parent will go mad without some kind of adult interaction. I'm a little hesitant to ask,but where's the children's dad and can he be more involved? We all need some time away from the little ones .Sorry if this is too personal.
Husband works. He brings home the bacon and my job is caring for the kids. All i get is a few extra hours to sleep in on weekends when he's home. We do not go out without the kids as he doesn't believe in having someone babysit. In the 5 years i've been a mom, we've only went out twice without any of the kids. He says there will be time for us later when the kids are grown. So basically i'm supposed to sit here and wait till they are old enough to somewhat take care of themselves. My youngest is only 3 months old so i still have many many years to go. My life revolves around the kids 24/7. I love them but sometimes i feel that my marriage does suffer due to lack of alone time with the husband. Again he says there will be time later as usual. By that time i really don't think i'd care anymore. Call me greedy but what i wouldn't give to have a nice romantic adult vacation without the kids. Hell, we've never even taken any vacations before with our without the kids. But the husband don't feel the same way as me. Again, there will be time later. There will always be time later. So i wait but part of me sometimes don't care anymore. Sometimes i already feel bored of my life and even bored of the husband as nothing exciting ever happens in bed or pretty much anywhere else.
I have much to say about your post. Much. However ,I'm going to wait for some of the women on this board to respond. I know they will. I hope they do so SOON. Hang in there. Another question--will you be the only one reading this? ---Joel
Yes,that's what I meant. I can't believe some people here haven't responded. I will. Soon--scratcho--(joel)
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