one night stands?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by The Earth, Aug 16, 2010.

  1. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    I had one, well it's one of those, "maybe it wasnt a one time thing"

    and it kind of sucks.. it was a really big confidence boost, but now im like dying for a companion, or ANOTHER one night stand haha

    the sex was AMAZING, but I almost think I miss the snuggling, kissing, and the giggly bed talk more.. WTF?!
     
  2. guerillabedlam

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    Was this your first time having sex too?
     
  3. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    No, it was the first time I fucked all night though haha

    went to bed at 10am oh yeah
     
  4. guerillabedlam

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    oh wow well I dunno, find a good companion to do this with if you enjoy it. I don't know the details of the current situation but maybe don't COUNT on it being a regular thing but maybe see where it goes if you are enjoying it. Cool you had a great night.
     
  5. Mr.Writer

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    Sex without those things is garbage.
     
  6. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    yeah thats the tough part finding a companion to do this with.. she said she would be my wing man sometime to, to hook up with other girls haha.. she was so wild, and im craving that..I dont think theres many girls like her
     
  7. guerillabedlam

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    Ehhh I like sex just for sex personally. I'm willing to appease the other person to cuddle and snuggle and all that but I just really enjoy exploring sex as an experience. The rest of the stuff I'm hoping to find someone to become connected to on that level, but I'm at physical peak probably and just love the experience. I'm actually not all that into one night stands though.
     
  8. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    never had one, not my cup of tea. Had opportunities, but I am actually not that driven by sex- I probably have a lower libido than most people.
     
  9. Ivana13

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    I did a couple of times in my teens, ..but I was young, dumb, and would not waste my time with anyone I did not have (at least) a friendship with first again. Just cant be bothered/ not interested if there is not a connection going on first.
     
  10. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    yeah its makes it hard too, because were like really good friends too.. Its okay Ill find another haha.. Weekends over now back to normal
     
  11. Amyoxl

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    I don't think I could have sex without an emotional connection of some sort. I, too, love the flirting and loving touches and cuddling and bathing together in the afterglow of good loving. That probably makes it hard on my husband, though, knowing I'm doing all those intimate things with another man, but he knows that that is what it takes for me to enjoy sex outside of our marriage. To me, sex is therapeutic - not recreational.
     
  12. Shale

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    IDK, back when I was in my 20s there was this sexual revolution going on. Free Luv meant no one even thot about sex - we just did it.

    You meet a new friend - why not fuck? Bored, hangin' out with friends - why not fuck?

    So, yes I had "one night stands" or even one hour stands. Some were one time only and some were repeats without any really deep connection other than we were friends who hung out together.

    Pam was a friend uptown in New Orleans and she loved to fuck. I would often visit and her bed was a mess, you could almost feel the vibes of the guy who just left. I loved her for that freedom. We never had a "relationship" other than when we got together we would fuck, as she did with lots of other guys.

    Now, I see guys. There was this guy here this weekend - first time meeting him. We spent the afternoon together and were very intimate. I mean, cuddling and kissing (Latinos seem to really be into kissing - it is soo sensual). I like him and he likes me. We plan to hook up again. Is that considered a one night stand? It is casual - no plans for a relationship - just enjoy our touch and talk while together sharing our lives for the moment.
     

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