My attitude: FUCK FLAKES!! I am the way I am and I'm not gonna contort myself into something I'm not just so I can get some girl. I don't need the ego trip and I don't need the headaches. Girls these days have gone aloof. Ever since the feminist movement you men act like pussies or you're either complete sociopaths that manipulate and disrespect girls. Many of these "sophisticated" girls act like they are some prize to be won and all you needy idiots reward them for this behavior. I'm not insinuating that guys need to be manipulative douche bags and control them... I'm simply saying that guys, need to quit being pussies and take charge. Don't be so damn needy. Don't be doing back flips and shit for her cuz thats just a fake show. Simply stand up for yourself. Respect yourself and youll be able to respect her properly. For the douche bags... tactics of deceit and manipulation are doomed to fail (i guess that also goes for the needy ones that put on fake shows). These tactics work fine to get laid but when it comes to finding something real its worthless. Girls.. quit playing this fuckin chase me chase me game. This is all ILLUSION. You know you want him so don't play games. If you use fakeness to impress or lure in a mate it is being played as a game. If its played like a game its gonna be won like a game and someone has to lose. Start your relationship with truth and it will have a lasting chance. Aside from the crafty little games that you play.. try having some respect for yourselves and quit crying about why your mistreated by these douche bags. Those that stand for nothing, fall for anything. Self-respect can go so far. If any of you even had a clue. Boys and girls, its amazing how much pain and self sorrow you can save yourselves just by standing up for yourselves. Do not confuse self-respect for cockiness or being a bitch. Its just taking care of yourself. You truly cannot respect someone else in the right way till you learn to respect yourselves. In turn people in general will respect you for respecting yourself. Same goes for love. Also this "MTV imposed slut culture" is destroying the youth along with fantasy bullshit and pimp/slut pop stars. I'm extremely frustrated lol. Idk wtf is real anymore besides what I think. If your offended by this then it maybe that your ego is defending itself because you fit in one of the above said categories. Be true to yourself and you'll see that this is very real. Guys and girls both are professional, pathological liars and master manipulators. Many are not even aware because they believe they're own lies. They're living life by their insecure egos and not them true selves. Best advice: Rely on yourself. Don't lie to yourself and keep an abundance mentality... Using these three things will help you to be more independent, honest, and ultimately happy. P.S. Sorry for my rants lol. I'm just sick of immature needy crybaby bullshit.
It may be a rant and he could definitely use paragraphs (please do from now on!!!), but he sure says some very wise words on relationships. It's definitely worth the reading.
ill be sure to do that! i was just typing that up in a hurry cuz i had some shit to do lol. thanx for the feedback.
yea lol, i had a friend who's JUST like that. many girls are these days >> its just like they wrap men around their fingers and men fall for it completely but they always just ditch the people who thought they loved them D: its really quite sad
I dont know that who that is ^ Im glad I dont watch mtv or whatever. But I totally agree. Either men go into a pussy or all macho mood. While females play that gaming or im going to whip him attuidude. Respect yourself then give it to your partner. I hate those bullshit games, I hate pussy and macho men. I steer clear of females and men when they seem to do that crap. It just grow up and be open, if you dont like that person leave. If hes treating you like crap, so leave, and stop bitching.
Well at first i started writing it out of annoyance from reading other whiny posts. But once i started getting deep into it i wanted to maybe help some of the whiny bastards lol so i tried to shoot them in the right direction. Hopefully someone that needs to read it does and it helps them out a little. Of course this is not the answer to everything but its a good start in the right direction. Live and learn people its a fun experience
