New member from Rochester, NY

Hi.....Bi mwm here. My wife doesn't know, but I have often thought about telling her. I know she joked around about wanting to 2 with 2 guys, but never acted on it even though I had discussed it with her a couple of times.

That was part of what of what really peaked my interest in mmf 3somes. I have done it before, and I really enjoyed myself as did the couple.

I don't condone cheating, but really wanted to explore my bi side. I have often wondered about bringing this up with my wife.

What I am hoping to get out of the forum is other locals and also hear about other people's stories about how they got turned on to being bi and how they handled telling their wives.

 

Hi and welcome to the forums!

There is a section here that will probably be really informative for you and there are many who can probably give you some advice.

Hope you enjoy the forums!

 

Welcome ashore my friend!!

 

High

 

I do not have a wife, but I do have a long term girlfriend of three years.

I am pretty sure I am bi, but this is an untested theory so far.

Like anything else awkward; you start with baby steps: little hints here and there. You test out the waters, you see how she responds.
The only examples I can think of at the moment are things like "I'm not into guys but ..." or "boy, I wish I could suck my cock when you don't feel like it" or something =P

If her responses are more sour defend yourself -- without getting emotional -- in a hypothetical sense "what's wrong with that?" "fags are people too". Remember, that in America, it's common for straights to act homophobic no matter where their true feelings lie. My girlfriend seemed sort've anti-gay at first, and it turns out she's probably more bi than me =P

Once you get your confidence, you can tell her more direct things. If you're like me, it'll be a rush just to share this side of yourself; and that will probably be fine for awhile.

If she still needs warmed up more, maybe you could start masturbating to celebrities she likes together (which is where I'm about). Or maybe you'll find she's real into the idea and ready to go hunting .. but I'm not there yet, so this is where my advice ends =P


And welcome =)

 

welcome aboard Wideswing!

 

Rochester born and raised right here.