Im confused again....Stupid Boys.

I met this guy at a party last night and i really like him. Anyway, I approached him and asked if he wanted to hookup or anything, and he was like Um nah but i'd love to maybe do something some other time maybe. LOL im thinking WTF? weird.... anyway

The reason he gave was that he didnt want to because he was pretty drunk, all good i said, i wasnt going to force him. So like we just hung out and shit, held hands, exchanged numbers and all that jazz. No real physical contact, just the holding hands thing, he didnt even kiss me LOL. We just hugged.

Anyway, throughout the whole night he kept saying "we should go do something together some other time or something, like tomorrow or something."
And then he hugs me and leaves the party. LOL.

Anyway, i txtd him today and asked him if he wanted to go see a movie or something and hes like "nah not today, not feeling too great, maybe some other time babe."
I was sweet with that cos hes only human, and hangovers suck.

But what gets me is that my mate Vin said he likes me and told him that i liked him but i dont think he does. Like i txtd him saying what my mate Vin had told me and asked him if it was true, and said he didnt have to answer the question if he didnt want to.
He hasn't yet. LOL

Do ya think i've scared him away?
The whole night it didnt seem like he was into me either, but everyone said it looked and sounds like he is. I duno. You think hes trying to get rid of me at all, from what i've decribed?

LOL lot of writing, Im sorry. Replys would be great.
Thanks

 

I think he probably REALLY likes you from what he said to you and acted like at the party... he's respecting you and wants to hang out with you sober...

you may have scared him off slightly perhaps?... if he's not very experienced sexually he might think you're expecting more of him than he's comfortable with. just be cool with him and try not to push it too much, but do ask him to hang out with you, with no added pressure to do anything physical. He may just be shy, or nervous

anyway, best of luck to you.. oh and patience is a virtue.. hehe... if you push him too hard he may freak and run...

hopefully that helps some

 

He might feel a little uncomfortable, you know... especially when you asked at a party. Only time will tell.

 

hehe. well he finaly replied to my txt, IN BOY LANGUAGE lol. He said that it wasn't true about what he said to my mate, I THINK. LOL it'l never end.

 

i think i'd be kinda terrified if someone came up to me at a party and asked me if i wanted to hook up, then after i said we should so something sometime, texted me and said "my friend said you said you liked me do you?!" it sounds a little middle school-ish you know? i'd back off a bit he's probably a little overwhelmed with getting all that thrown at him at once!

 

Give it a couple days and then call him with a cool idea to hang out. Don't ask him out on a date just ask him to come chill with you. Maybe hang out in a group. But it doesn't sound like he's too interested in dating you right now, unless he's playing hard to get, and that's just dumb- any kind of head game is dumb and you deserve better than that. But lay off for a bit and then try again. You probably DID scare him a little. Guys don't like it when you pester them and run up their phone bill with txts about whether he likes you or not. I hate to put that so bluntly- but it's true. Just the other day a guy friend of mine was sitting around complaining about how he had shown a little bit of interest in a girl and now she won't stop calling him and txting him about stupid shit like they're a couple now. If he really likes you, he'll want to hang out with you.

 

Hes not worth it babe, you pour your heart out and hes all pensive... nah... fuck that
you need to go out with grown ups hun

 

Err..i have to agree with Retro Girl...dont let him pull on ya strings as if ur a puppet....when he says jump...dont ask how high!

 

Hmm interesting. Lol, yer i have this habit of being straight up and just jumping in with out thinking when it comes to shit like this. I dont really like to piss around much.
i think the txt message i sent, he understood wrong, i think he thought i was just talking about my mate in general LOL. So i dont think i scared him off. But i will be more carefull. If he doesnt really like me, i've always got a plan B ;-). thanks

 

Well, hes a Cock! So im going with plan B.

 

lol, what is Plan B? another guy?

 

yer, except its 2 guys, not 1, Lol.

The guy i met at the party is one of those guys who would rather go off with his mates than you, so i get really frustrated with him. I saw him again in town and we hung out for probly 5 mins, the rest of the time he was with his mates. But he kissed me, I just dont think he likes me. So plan B is looking great right now, mind you i am drunk atm LOL.

I dont know what to do!!! Im so confused .

 

well im not confused anymore, excellent. He told me that hes very undecisive (very true) and he doest want a relationship at the moment so now we're buds, which is kool with me cos he'd make quite a kool friend.

peace out