Nan goes will you do me a favor? Yea ( i do any thing for nan ) u promis? yeah, go to a hair dressers get them to brush it and style it for you, it will look 100 times better , ur killing me nan,. I dont see my nan much, has done so much for me in the past, thats my delama
The Answer To Your Problem Is Quite Simple Mr Dove.... Offer To Push The Old Dear Around Town In Her Wheel Chair, And When You Find Yourself At The Top Of A Steep Hill, Admiring The View, Reach Down With A Pair Of Snips, And Cut The Brake Cable On Her Chair..... It's A Total Win Win Solution, You Get To Keep Your Dreads, And If The Old Dear Is Worth A Few Dollars, Buy Yourself A Mega Cool Sound System For Your Van..... Glad To Be Of Assistance..... Cheers Glen.
Mine bitched for years about me parting my hair in the middle. I parted it on the left one day and she didn't even seem to care. So meh, whatever. They need something to bitch about anyway.
; p, that sounds like a great ida if i didnt have a heart, im not going to touch my hair, its just starting to come togeater, nana will call in a couple of days and see if ive been yet, working 10hr days means all shops are suhut wen im done, ill just say i havent had time, ; p.. Latter on she goes it might cost u $50 but u could find a bird, always looking out for me.
just cause your life sucks doesn't mean other people have to do whatever you want, being old is a hassle but we all have to do it, don't let that be an excuse for her to order appeasement on your part...
Its cool man chill, had to read it twice to understand it, her life doesnt suck she is happy and content, just trying to look out for my better intrests, it comes across like no one likes my nan, haa maby old people and dread haters,
lolol i figured you'd take it a lil harsh, i don't hate your nan or think her life sucks, I mean how could I? i was just making a point. there's no need for you to make decisions about your hair and body because of what other people think
I know and thats why i dont, theres always a long story behind most things, its gona kill me for a while, my nan is like an angel (bit heavy i know), tho life wouldnt be the same with knowing her love. ( Theres someone out there for everyone to relate to on that). Liveing in someones shadow is not the right path, thats not what im doing, tho have in the past, were all free i under stand that to,. Haha fucking drama i hate it, thats why i chill out bush. Thanks for the re wright. Ahh what a great day
Just ignore her words when it comes to the topic, or distract her, or simply explain to her why you have dreads ... and laugh with her. Don't make it big, don't let it get in the way of love.
i find that the elderly will find any and everything to complain about it. don't bring the matter up again and she'll get over it eventually.
I think you're lucky to still have her with you and be so close to her. I wish my nan was still here but if she asked me to cut my dreads I think I'd do what moving_cloud said and just not mention it. When she was younger people used to take alot of time in their appearance and dreadlocks (even though the same pride is there) just doesn't fit that bill. But Why not tie them up when you're around her and make more of an effort it might make it easier for her to accept them.
tell her the hairdresser said that you are unable to comb them out and dont wanna cut your hair or something otherwise man up and be honest with her and tell her you dont wanna get rid of them
Haha, im loven all the answers, i tried given up smokeing so i could say hay nan i quit smokeing insted of the hair dresser thing, went two days it was a long two days, honst way sounds like the right answer so far,
Yeah dude my gran hated me with dreads lol and now she thinks I should cut all of my hair off and comb it, Not going to happen