Hello, I hope everyone is doing well! I'm new here. I'm an 18 yr old male who is very much attracted to women but I have found that I find other men to be very attractive as well...which scared me for a long time so I was rather homophobic but I've grown up and decided to face it! I just wanted to get the opinions of those that are gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. The girl I'm with at the moment is bi. Guy or gal, doesn't matter with her, her unique sexuality has inspired me to really look at this for the first time. Her tolerant and liberal outlook has helped me to dig deeper into my sexuality. So here's how I am. I love women! I find women very attractive! I want to have sex with women! Then...I see another man like this... or this I see a really attractive guy and I admire him, I am attracted to him. Not quite in the same way I am with a woman. I see a really hot woman and I want to have sex with her. I see a hot man and I want to maybe run my hands over his muscles or kiss him or something but the thought of actually having sex with him scares me a little. I can't honestly tell if I am sexually attracted to other men...not quite sure where I am. I don't particularly like looking at other men's genitals. Something in me says that if I lighten up about it I would be fine with other men... Any advice? VERY CONFUSED HERE!
Enjoy your somewhat rare position: your GF is bi and will probably have no problems understanding that you may have similar inclinations. Go out and explore. Do not focus your life on it and do not add any more weight to it. Just learn to enjoy it for whatever it may be worth to you. KD
I think you've already answered your own question. And if you never try you'll never know. Just do whatever comes naturally to you. That's always the right thing to do.
