My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2.5months now, and we have both wanted to have sex. I'm 17 and she's 16, and neither of us have had sex before, but. We've tried twice over the past 2 weeks but both times, we had some problems.. I seem to have problems well getting inside her lol.. My penis is around 7inches if that matterss, and i just have problems with insertion you might say.. It doesn't bother her because she says she loves me but it's rather upsetting not being able to please your lady on that kind of level. I was wondering if anybody could help me out with this, and offer any advice. It would be much appreciated. Thank you
Do you mean you have problems lining up your bodies for insertion? (This still happens to us when we do new positions) Or do you mean that you guys are having trouble getting the penis into the vagina? If the second is the issue: make sure you're really hard, and be patient with her. Nerves can really make a vagina tighten up, so try to stay calm, and try to keep her relaxed; and really just be understanding and loving and make sure she feels good. If she's having trouble getting loosened up, it might be a good idea to warm her up a little with your hand; and if you guys are still having trouble after quite a few gos; lube might be a good option (but she's young, and shouldn't need that) As far as the whole "not being able to please your woman.." get used to it =P
Once you get it in, be prepared because assuming she is a virgin its going to hurt her quite a bit. Definitely work your hand magic before and if she complains its too big break out the petrol jelly. Make sure your spreading the, for lack of a better term, lips enough so they dont block the hole; which is what I imagine the problem probably is. You can also use your finger as a guide. Find the right whole and use it to line up, feel me? Like Duck said though, keep her calm. Breathe low a hot air onto her ear. Itll calm her as well as make her a bit more horny.
1.work the tounge and finger magic first. 2. spread the lips. 3.TAKE IT SLOOOOW 4.given shes 16, talk to her about it in detail and make sure she is truly ready and not just wanting to do it to please you. 5. MOST IMPORTANT-DELAY FIRST THREE ACTIONS FOR 2 YEARS.
