"Friends with Benefits"

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Flwrgirl87, Sep 13, 2010.

  1. Flwrgirl87

    Flwrgirl87 Member

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    Hi there. :)

    My best friend and I have been in what I suppose you might call an open relationship for the past 3 years now, and even though we get a lot of backlash from some that know us for being "friends with benefits". They either assume we're both not thinking clearly, or that I'm naiive and he's taking advantage of me. The funny thing is, I find that we have a better relationship than many of those we know in more traditional relationships. We can talk to each other about anything, consider one another best friends, and can spend weeks together without getting on one another's nerves. We just happen to also have a lot of "fun" :D

    Anyone else out there in a similar situation?
     
  2. MM18

    MM18 Member

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    I wish... I am jealous of that situation. SO many relationships have turned shit once they become official.
    Sounds like you're onto something good, just remember it could end any moment if either of you find someone else. Though.. by the sounds of it... :p *jealous*.
     
  3. OzNorth

    OzNorth Member

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    I think "friends with benefits" is great if you can find one, i like the idea
     
  4. boguskyle

    boguskyle kyleboguesque

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    im really jealous. youre probably in the best situation relationship-wise there can be imo. too bad the rest of the world isnt ready for that, and something will change it. :/
     
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