Fiance just ran over his cat...

And after he already blamed himself for the death of the last one (it ate a poisonous plant- totally not his fault), this time I think he'll be a little harder to convince. :frown:

RIP Kisa... You were one of the good ones. :Angel_anim:

 

that sucks

 

Well, that really sucks.

I would try to keep his mind away from that track whenever possible.

If you have a yard, you can make a cross real easy with two popsicle sticks, and it makes a nice grave marker, and I suppose it's biodegradable =P

 

In russia, cat run you over.

um, condolences.

 

her name WAS Russian for "kitten."

Thanks.

And Duck, I wish I could, but I have class and he's working all day. Also, that little niggle of being roughly 500 miles away... *le sigh* Shitty situation. I wish I could be there.

 

awww that is shit.......sorry to here that honestly, hope your fiance can come to terms with the fact that its not his fault, these things happen there's nothing that can be done about it

 

have you ever seen a cat as flat as that

 

Ah, I was not aware.

That must be really hard. Some people get rather close to their pets these days; but he will get over it. Be there for him, but don't be over-sympathetic and dredge up bad feelings.

And as for you; how much longer before you see him?

 

:'( how unfortunate... poor guy, poor kitty... I couldn't imagine... I loveee catss <3 and animals in general... I would feel so badd... my condolences go out to the both of you... much love and peace <3 remember life is eternal yr ktity went to kitty heaven hehe yay <3 and enjoy the life she lived n be grateful she was in your life she will always live in your heart <3 and you will feel her again

 

Thank you, that's what I believe, too.

Yeah, thanks, that's what I've been trying to tell him, but I can't really talk to him until 1. Gotta get through a biochemistry class before then :ack2:

I'm one of those people. I have one named Nefertiti that I rehabilitated after her leg almost got chopped off in a raccoon trap. I had to teach her to walk again. Now she sort of stalks me. We're really close (which happens when all of your friends live far away and your family is crazy), and he had roughly the same relationship with his cat, so we are definite crazy cat people. I know he's beating himself up, and I wish I could stop him, but he's just got to get it out of his system, I guess. He was really screwed up about it when he left the voicemail this morning... was describing the head wound and everything. I just wish I could help him.
I'll see him early next month. I'm moving out there sometime in the winter or spring and we're getting married next October. I'm bringing Neffi with me, and he loves and misses her too (he lived with us for almost a year), so hopefully that will help a little. Don't want to bring in another cat too soon, but I think that will be long enough.

 

I still remember what my first cat looked like as roadkill.. not a pleasing memory to have. You really can't tell him not to blame himself, but you can try your best to distract him, while his brain works through the grieving process. I know you wish you could fly over and hold him; but you can make him feel loved and make him smile with any form of contact.

Your concern is adorable. I hope all goes well for you, and I'm sure he'd love to see Nefertiti =)

 

I’m willing to bury the cat in the pet sematary if you send the remains parcel post

Ludlow maine is even quite a haul for me but i'm willing to drive the few hours necessary; although there’s always still the danger of arriving after dark when the wendigo is most active


Hotwater

 

Better not let him near your pussy

 

maybe its time to buy a goldfish

 

i was thinking something like a Horse. you cant run over a horse to easy..

 

I hate cats

 

iv you live in the country, cats can be awesome.

other than that no.

they can stay the fuck out of my house!! dogs FTW

 

Sorry to read that. Pets become a part of the family and when one dies we feel badly, even more so if we feel we are to blame.

Sorry about the kitty.

 

My sincere condolences to all three of you during this difficult time. i'm very sorry that you two are going through this and saddened by what happened to the kitty.

Be kind to yourselves, hug each other, and consider getting a kitten soon. . . .

Peace & Love,
Spicey Cat
Sad little Brrrrp