Ex posting nude pics online.

unless you are a Russian Gymnast ..

 

I'd let him know of defamation of character and unless he wants a lawsuit to destory those photos. If only he has them, it can always be traced back to him.

If you want to play dirty, get small penis pictures and claim they're his and share them after he shares yours. Or, have a good guy friend take some nasty pictures, very dirty picutres of you and this other cock in action. then claim they were taken during the relationship becasue you had to go elsewhere to get satisfied. Or, lol... just let his mom know what hes up to.

 

I can honestly say I would not, no. Obviously i'm just weird.

 

Nope, Not Weird, Just Heaps Smarter Than The O.P..!!...



Cheers Glen.

 

Naivity I think. The girls shouldnt do it, even if it doesnt end up on the web, as if he's not going to show all his mates, unless the girl wants his mates to see that is

Then theres always the chance of 15 years later the girls teen sons friends giggle whenever they meet her cos they downloaded Joes mums sextape

 

I don't think it's dumb at all to take naughty photos with someone that is actually trust worthy; for the record.

 

well did you know the extent of the consequences when you let him made these photos available to him? knowing your consequences, is the way, to go. if you know them. and understand them. then... well.... you get over it.

nor do i. i couldn't give a fuck.

 

Not to sound crude, but next time you need to be able to judge someone better before going that far with them. Personally, I think that's the only way to avoid situations like this. Truthfully, I'm all for sending nude pictures, but if I have doubts about a person, I wouldn't do it, it only ends up being a bad idea for both parties.

But, all in all, I'd say this guy sounds pretty psychotic. That's the only one someone would still be butthurt about a break up months later.

 

You could be with the most trustworthy of partners, but that makes little difference if the relationship ends on bad terms, and you're dealing with a scorned ex-lover.

We've all acted sinfully in relationships, for a whole varying for reasons. And more so, we all have ex's who we probably don-t see eye to eye with- yet you may have thought were of Gods graces when you were together.

You're opinion is valid, but I don't agree.

 

A person is not trustworthy if they are going to become scorned.

No, I don't have any ex's thank you very much.

Relationships require foresight and getting to know a person -- something which most daters absolutely avoid at all costs.

 

Tell that to my ex girlfriend. Most trustworthy and lovely girl in the world, and I screwed her over and cheated on her. She spent the remainder of that final school year tormenting me and had any pictures been available, you know the drill.

Serves me right though.

Well I hope this relationship works out for you. 99% of people aren't so lucky to get it right first time, so you never know

you may find yourself agreeing with me somewhere down the line. But, as mentioned, I hope not.

 

Hey! Stop trying to pick up her ex you vulture! Those rebound things never work out anyway.

 

Sucks. No one ever allegories me back, no wonder I use them so much; not much to respond =P

Most people don't ever get it right, really -- but thanks.. I think



It's definitely never a bad idea to play it safe -- but some people are good gamblers, too.

 

^^ agree


He may just be bluffing, hopefully.

I don't know if there is any talking to him anymore. I don't know if the "I don't have any bad will toward you, you shouldn't try to hurt me because I didn't try to hurt you" approach would work.

You might want to keep any evidence of the threat just in case.

Wish you better luck in the land of love

 

I think my lack of trust just proves i'm a little bit more of a dick head with women than you are!

:xmasnut:

 

Ask him straight out, "Why would you do such a thing, you know it can't be undone, what if it were you, or you find your future wife's pics online afterward, or if it were your daughter or sister?
"It serves no good purpose for you to do this"

Beyond that, not much else you can do unless you contact a lawyer and scare the begesus out of him.
Typical Lawyer nastygram cost a couple hundred bucks.

 

Before I get into this I do want you to know that your ex is a bastard and that what he is doing is inexcusable. But I read a quote somewhere about maybe everybody should post nude/sex pics on the internet so then it wouldn't be so shocking or scandalous. Then maybe it wouldn't be the type of thing that ruins reputations or starts bad ones. It would cut down on gossip because everyone has seen it and done it themselves so the playing field is level.

But like I said your ex is a bastard with serious issues. You are better off without that slimy piece of shit. If you haven't figured it out yet you soon will realize that the best thing that motherfucker ever did was leave you. So he has intimate pictures of you so fucking what it is nothing to be ashamed of you were 2 adults that loved each other doing things that adults that love each other do. In the end it will all blow over. Be pissed off you have a right to be but let go when you can because that shit can drag you down like an anchor.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

For once I agree, & I'd say that she should avoid bastards like that in the future. Like I said, try t find out as much as you can before you get into a relationship. There are a lot of messed up people in the world that will actually do something like this.

I almost did this, but I didn't because I know it'd have been wrong & would've been something I would immediately regret doing. Plus, I had a level headed brother telling me not to do it, so I wouldn't. At the end of the day, I don't see myself ever doing something to a person like that, & events like this are what scare females off from sending pics to guys that actually wouldn't try some revenge scheme once the relationship ends.

I'm hopeful that he's all talk & won't do it. You seem like a really, really nice & mature girl, so this is the last thing you'd need to happen to you.

Best of luck & keep us updated.

 

Wow, a lot of different views and perspectives... thank you all for the support and the various ways to handle the situation! Much love!

The update is this: I don't care if he posts them. I realized that by stressing out and getting upset, I am feeding into his nonsense and giving him my power. I am not ashamed of my body, I am not ashamed of my sexuality, I am not ashamed of what I did. If anything, I would probably be pissed if he didn't post the ones I thought were the most flattering! lol I feel a bit sorry that he is insecure enough to contemplate doing it, but that is his issue, not mine. The 2 main reasons we broke up was 1) his drinking and 2) as soon as he got the ring on my finger, he became very possessive.

By removing my indignation, I removed all effect that his actions would cause. I took my power back. If you ever come across them online, please let me know. Otherwise, I will continue on with my life, wish him good luck in dealing with his inner demons, and handle each situation as it arises.

Thank you all again. Love, Blessings & Peace.

-Rider

 

:hurray: