I Can't Do This Much Longer

get a life. try being stuck in a country that you cant even speak or read the lingo for more then a year. So many people that have it worse. sorry man, get out more.

 

so much negativity in the lounge

smh.

hang in there popularity, man

 

My point is that his problems are self-created, which is yet another luxury.

 

Agreed

 

I agree with Rugor. They brought up very good points. Sounds like sound advice.
I also agree with Jokerman. Craiglist is nice.

Anyway I think Life is what you make it.

What do you think?

 

It may seem that they are self created to you, but who are you to judge? His problems are obviously very real to him, learn some sensitivity. As someone else said the whole "remember other people have it worse than you" line of logic only goes so far. Besides the OP posted this thread specifically to talk about his social problems, and the trouble he's having coping during this time of his life... telling him to just get over himself is very negative and doesn't help anyone. Now everything you've said maybe true but I don't think this is the time or place to discuss it, its just not relevant to him.

 

positive reinforcement always trumps negative reinforcement

 

What if there is no reinforcement?

 

do a barrel roll!

 

this is it. Being creative and being in nature are the two things in this life that keep me sane besides my family and friends

 

I didn't say that they weren't real or wrong, I said they were self-created, which is a luxury.
And contrary to what you may think I should say, the sooner he realizes that the sooner he won't have them.

 

Get out to where?

 

definitely. great advice here!!

just push yourself and try.. you WILL break through and it will be easier

 

one of them is actually kind of hilarious

 

Get out & meet new friends. Go on a date, go to the movies, just get out & have fun. Anyone would be bored if they just sat around their house/apartment all day & rarely left said residence. Like I said, make some new friends, hang out with them, & try to enjoy yourself.

 

i dont know get out of your bubble! If I can be stuck some where where I can't even speak the language, you can be stuck somewhere where you can speak the same lingo and make something of it. You've got a gas station where your at right? Hell thats all you even need to talk to people if you really wanted. All you have to do in talking to new people is find some common ground.

 

i feel the same way. life's a bummer isn't it? Hopefully it'll get better as time goes on, it certainly cant get much worse

 

The only way your life can get better is if you MAKE it better. If you just sitting around waiting for something to happen, nothing's going to change. Take charge of your life, control your destiny, take steps to make yourself happy because if you don't, you'll be the one filled with regrets when you're older.

 

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