I met a woman online who is 54 I'm 35. We met and made awsome love she said it was the best she has ever had. We both agreed that it was just for fun. After I came home we chatted back and forth via email. I haven't heard from her since Monday and the funny thing is I'm sad. I know it sounds totally funny but this kinda messed me up. I tried to get her to meet up with me for like a month and a hald and finally when she did it's like I really like her. I don't know what's wrong with me. Any suggestions?
i think you should just tell her how you feel. and if she says shes not interested its better than falling harder for her and never being able to know how she feels. so i think you should tell her.
The thing is we are both looking for soemthing different it's just that we really had a good time together and shared a lot of laughs. I really like her I'm just hoping she wants to be friends. It's so funny I feel like my heart is broken-lol. I look for her email but for 2 days nothing. Hell I don't know up until this point I was a pretty happy person.
haha well maybe you guys should hangout like once a week or something and you never know there might be something there and neither of you even know
Don't take it too hard, women that age are pretty sly. She might just be enjoying the feeling of having you on the hook, for women that age the psychological aspect of a relationship is very important. She probibly enjoyed being pursued, and now that she let herself be "caught" some of the thrill is gone. I know it might cause you a bit of pain to consider the idea that for her it was just a one-nighter, especially since you put a lot of work into getting it to that point. My advice, send her one more short, somewhat vague, bit of mail, something like "butterflies are free, and so are you, call me sometime", then drink a large quantity of the alchoholic beverage of your choice, cry a little, and wake up looking for your next romance. If you're lucky, after a week or so without any attention she might decide it's time to pursue YOU!. If not, well, fuck it, you're already looking for your next, right?
[ QUOTE=culinaryoverlord;6530579]Don't take it too hard, women that age are pretty sly. She might just be enjoying the feeling of having you on the hook, for women that age the psychological aspect of a relationship is very important. She probibly enjoyed being pursued, and now that she let herself be "caught" some of the thrill is gone. I know it might cause you a bit of pain to consider the idea that for her it was just a one-nighter, especially since you put a lot of work into getting it to that point. My advice, send her one more short, somewhat vague, bit of mail, something like "butterflies are free, and so are you, call me sometime", then drink a large quantity of the alchoholic beverage of your choice, cry a little, and wake up looking for your next romance. If you're lucky, after a week or so without any attention she might decide it's time to pursue YOU!. If not, well, fuck it, you're already looking for your next, right?[/QUOTE] Lol thats some shit I would say when I'm not looking like the panzy I am now. Fucking A you are spot on thanls bro!
Love and our attempts at it make pansies of us all. Ever seen a 350 lb tattooed biker crying on your couch over the "only woman that ever understood him"? I hope this situation works itself out, keep me posted.
Well I started really emailing maybe too much so and that also made her think "oh shit he thinks we are an item". But I also encouraged her about dating others so I don't know people are funny
she knows the age thing would most likely never work and is most likely dealing with yours or her own feelings in what she feels is the best manner. What she doesn't know, and she should...is that you like "her"...and you'd like to spend time with her...if nothing more to be friends. Are you feeling the way you do because it's her or because your having these emotions. Could someone else cause these exact broken heart feeling right now... Like if you love being in love more then the actual person. Not saying you don't like her...but is it having that someone that has got you love sick and not really "her"
Wait based on your posts.. do you like her or what? If you like her, dont encourage her to date others.. she probably is or has. You keep your mouth shut over that crap or a female is going to think your nothing to them. Even if it was just for fun your saying "dont think of me too much.. go keep yourself busy with other stuff.. date others" Maybe she didnt have of a great time.. is she married? maybe shes married.. has a boyfriend.. do you know? Dont email her too much meaning 1 email is plently. If she still hasnt replied i guess you can wait a few days then your outta luck.. could always send one more and ask to see her cause you had a great time. Other than that, i think she is hiding something, or she knows its not going to work out more.. she has more exp and already foresaw her future with you way back before. You can always tell her when you see her.. tell her how you feel.. But are you sure it isnt just from loneliness ?
