Is 32yo dating 20yo creepy? (2 guys)

I need help with this one!
To make the story short, I've only ever had girlfriends in my life, and all of a sudden, met this one guy in a clothing store I always go to, and he just gets under my skin (positively). I can't stop thinking of him and it doesn't make me cringe!?!
As wierd as the moment was, I took a leap and 'asked him out', felt really nervous and noxious, but in a happy wierd way, he accepted to do something eventually, and I still didn't feel wierded out about this. And found out the age difference. That's seems to be the only thing bothering me.
I only thought bisexuality on a male was bull?!?
Physically, we both 'look' mid 20's though, but chronologically not.

 

The most important thing in life is for someone to do what makes them happy.

 

No. What is important is that you're both happy, and that you're both of legal age to consent.

 

No it's creepy.



Just kidding whatever floats your boat is all that matters.

 

no, creepy not. you're both grownups and can do whatever you want. as long as the age difference doesn't bother either one of you it shouldn't really be a problem. what matters is the guy you're seeing, and whether you really wanna be with him. after that there are no limits.

 

This is pretty normal. What's the old rule, one half plus seven? Is that right? I think the rule is you split the older one's age in half and then add 7 and whatever the result, that's as young as you should go. That would be 23, but close so whatever.

 

Thanks for the help, I'm very un-experienced in all this.

 

I usually hook up with older men. So no. I don't like dating older men because most I've met/dated are arrogant and dominant and it pisses me off cause I feel it's a one sided relationship.

 

..............You are overthinking this!!!!!!! ENJOY......my partner and I had 18 yrs. between us; he graduated high school the year I was born!!!!!!! and we were together 27 years before his death from a bad heart......If you both like each other, let it develop!!!! life is too short!!!!!!!! WAY too short.......treat him with respect and love and he will do the same, if it's meant to be!!.....When something like what you've experienced happens, GO WITH IT.........I wish you all the best!!!!!! Just remember to treat him the way you want to be treated........and love him!!!!!!!!

 

Thank you for your replies, and BG43214,thanks!

 

When I was a teen prime target was 25-40 with shoulders you could drive a truck across

Although I got to say, once I got in that age range it was a little weird seeing it from the other direction

 

I like older guys