Close Quarters with a Stranger

I'm 18, going to be a freshman in college. I'm bisexual, but just started coming out about it. I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years (with a girl).
How the heck does the college expect me to go live with 2 guys? It'll be torture! And I'm already anxious about their sexualities simply because i have no idea what to expect.

On that note, i've already been talking with my new roommates online. I was speaking with one, and he said that it's weird how we're going to become so close, whereas we don't know each other at all yet. Then he tried to explain to me that he sounds different in person than he does online (which instantly sounded a little odd). He stated that he puts "lol" too much in convo online (which he'd never really done before). Then he almost blew up the screen with a million sentence all ending in "lol", without giving me a chance to respond. These sentences revealed that he found it really hard to describe himself (which is normal). But then he said that he "wanted [me] to find out for [my]self" who he is. After this, he stated that that was "deep" for him to say. And then quickly covered it by saying that he's never "this sentimental"...

After that, he made up some lame excuse, then rapidly signed off. Call me crazy (I'm sure many of you will), but I think he was partially flirting with me (he was definitely "lol"ing at too many of the stupid things I said), so I think he's bi, bi-curious, or for all I know, perhaps even gay. It's almost like he was trying to tell me/ warn me. Idk, I'm confused, and really just wish that I knew instead of having to try to surmise.

I want to know so that I know how to act around him. I don't want to make some sort of faux pas because i don't know, or accidentally give the wrong signals or something (I've supposedly done that before). Idk, i could just be stupid for thinking that it matters, but for now it matters to me.

What do you think?

 

I am absolutely 50% on this. Either you're misinterpreting it; or he's giving you signals. Best way to find out is to keep on the look out, and for now just be friendly.

 

I agree with Duck - you will just have to wait and observe the actual person. Typed conversation is hard to see the nuances spoken words in person can convey. It's why they invented emoticons.

When you feel his cock in your mouth, then you may assume he is gay or bi.

BTW, let us know how it is to have expanded sexuality while living with other guys. I first started realizing my love of men while in the Air Force living in a barracks. I could not act on it of course, but it would be interesting to see how young men deal with it in these more permissive times. (Which means - even if ur roommates are str8 but progressive in thot, you might still get it on)

 

I wouldn't make too much out of all the "lol", he may not know what else to say and just threw them in as filler.

 

1. lol .... 2. Great, now I'm anxious and intrigued! It's almost as if sexuality before college might not matter. It's as if college these days (if it wasn't earlier) comes with the expectation of students experimenting. And if someone has ever even wondered (and who hasn't?) then this will be their shot to test. Hmmmmmm. Now is that a good or a bad thing? Isn't having relations with a roommate not recommended? idk...lol.
3. I'll definitely continue to be on this site through college, so odds are, you'll hear all about my experience.

 

Good point..it's just the way it all played out though. Seemed peculiar. I mean, there was definite embarrassment in what he said. It just sounded like he was covering something up, yet trying to explain himself for it (that's literally what he did). When someone rants and then instantly signs off after apologizing for it...usually something is amiss. But hey, who knows? Can't wait to meet these people.

 

I say flirting, lololololol.

 

so far, he's making life really awkward. He walks around the room in just boxers and will talk with his crotch like right next to my face. And he constantly masturbates. And I swear that he's hitting on me sometimes. Living with someone makes things very close btw, like he'll text me when I'm out asking if I could pick some food up for him, and I text him back saying that i brought home a second turkey wrap from a dinner I went to just in case he wanted anything, and that it's in the fridge for him. It's like we're married or something, but minus the fighting. lol