where do you find people who arent shallow and who have minds of there own?

so i live in a really small town and i find it really hard to find like minded people who i can have a good duscusion with and for me in any relationship thats a really big part even in friendship. i just havent found anyone who i can actually have a really good conversation with im not really looking for someone whos views are just like mine i just want to have a relationship with someone who can actually hold a real conversation thats not shallow or selfcentered. ya know? like is there anyone else who feels this way?

 

Every were man, travel, ur wont find them at home, some times at a pub, rallies protest nature, just be ur self, with out being judgemential u can usualy pic them, what are u going to once ther found? U have to break the ice yeah,

Strangers are only strangers because u dont know them. So many ppl fail to meet and greet, that sociaty is becomeing more closed and un realistic to what reality has to offer,

My advice close ur eyes and open ur heart, stand tall in the short grass, and be ur self, time is nothing in a dream that never ends, ; )

 

thanks for the advise but its really hard for me to travel since im in school and working all the time but when i do i totally try and be outgoing with people and be very stright forward with who iam as a person.

 

so do you want like minded people or people with minds of their own?

 

hahaha thats a good question im not quite sure my throughts get pretty scattered.

 

im still searching only pretentious cunts round here thow

 

i feel ya man. it totally sucks.

 

Sometimes I envy really stupid people. They are happy, i'm quite often not so.

 

haha are you refuring to me haha.

 

No way, the opposite

So many people are the same, and they are the same because they are mindless sheep that follow trends.

The greater people, they usually slip under the radar. Thing is though, if you want to sustain longevity as a human being, you have to get used to being perhaps unpopular- get used to not being 'in fashion'.

 

does this make you like the dude from the Matrix?

 

find 'em at the deep end of the genepool

(just jokin', genetics have nothing to do with someone's depth... just keep lookin', they are out there... only prob is far too few people ever get the opportunity to show how deep they really are.. it's very cool to help them with this)

 

yup.

 

they live in where they are comfortable in their own mind which most of the time is not within the constrains of a vein egostitical, idealistic, materialistic society. What im getting at is there out there just alot of times they dont wanna be found.

 

haha ok. And yea i know what ya mean like alot of people i know have no minds of there own and its like when i voice my opinion or thoughts they look at me as if i'm crazy. its just annoying to know that some people are so far up there own asses that they don't ever care about there real life problems. ya know?

 

I think it's just a matter of sorting through bad people to find the goods one

 

People said Ted Bundy was a charismatic guy that everyone liked

 

des moines

 

good luck on your search; i used to feel the same way and I was fortunate enough to find a great group of friends that are all intelligient free-thinkers. hopefully the same will happen to you. Be open to people. I used to be more closed off because I was so wary of accidently befriending people that bored me. But as soon as I opened myself up to people I found that I attracted the good eggs and not the bad.

 

In vans down by the river.


Or internet forums.